Organizing shared expenses with friends

[3ball]

Two friends and I will be doing the CF together beginning in March. Some expenses might be shared (private lodging perhaps) and some will be individual. To avoid having to pay 3 times at the table or other places, it would be nice to have a simple system of paying and splitting later.

Does anyone have suggestions? TIA.

 

[VNwalking]

What worked for me is having a kitty, into which everyone pays the same amount. Topping up as necessary.

 

[JCLima]

When I travel with a friend, and we plan to share expenses, one of us takes responsibility for one expense (for example, housing), while the other takes on another expense (such as food). At the end of the trip, we compare totals and see if one of us needs to send the other money.

 

[Skinnybiker]

The 3skinnybikers use a kitty system, we all pay in to the kitty but one person holds the kitty / money. Shared costs come out of the kitty and the kitty-holder keeps the accounts in a notebook, it has never failed....yet. Two of us are surveyors / mathematicians but we usually let our artistic mate hold the kitty so he can be creative haha. There are of course apps that will do the arithmetic for you but that's no fun.

 

[Flog]

What worked for me is having a kitty, into which everyone pays the same amount. Topping up as necessary.

What I do. It works very well for two, but I'm not sure how well it works with bigger numbers.

 

[SabsP]

This is what I wrote in another thread when walking with a friend last month.

" We decided beforehand to split every bill in two (except of course personal stuff bought in supermarket ). Sometimes she would have two wines and I only one but another time I would have a dessert and she would not .
When walking with someone else than your lifepartner I think the issue of spending money is important to get straight before you start walking."

I was the bank and every night I counted the bills / tickets and she would pay me with a bankapp ( QR code ).

 

[Tincatinker]

Yep. It’s called a whip, ( as in whip round) or a common purse, and there’s probably a few more terms. You all agree to put a fixed amount into the “hat” and spend from the hat rather than your pockets.
Its an excellent method of provoking dissent amongst groups of erstwhile friends as one drinks nine beers while everyone else in the whip sips double-filtered mountain water at twice the price of a beer.

You’ll encounter “No hay cuenta compartida”. Don’t fight it

 

[VNwalking]

What I do. It works very well for two, but I'm not sure how well it works with bigger numbers.

Have done this with as many as 6. It works fine, so long as everyone eats and drinks at about the same level. One person with more liberal taste in a group of frugal folk would be hard to balance. Maybe having a group agreement ahead of time if that's the case.

 

[ShoshTrvls]

I use an app called “cost split” which is free and easy to set up. It allows you to input costs in any currency (but you have to provide the exchange rate) and to split costs unevenly (eg there are 3 of you traveling but one night only two people decide to go out for dinner) and at the end tabulates it all and tells you who needs to be who how much.

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[Amandacaves]

I use the app Splitwise. As usage of credit cards/ tap increases, it feels easier than maintaining a physical purse. And it can handle currency differences as well as changing percentages.

 

[Tincatinker]

I have a very simple arrangement with The Beloved. If she wants a new frock she can buy a new frock. If I want a new car….

Before anyone reaches for the outrage button that was a joke….. And anyway she has lots of frocks

 

[TravellingMan22]

Two friends and I will be doing the CF together beginning in March. Some expenses might be shared (private lodging perhaps) and some will be individual. To avoid having to pay 3 times at the table or other places, it would be nice to have a simple system of paying and splitting later.

Does anyone have suggestions? TIA.

There’s is app called ‘splitwise’ which is great for this kind of thing. Someone’s picks up the bill and then maybe someone else, and it keeps a balance of ‘who owes who’ and all that.

Being British I prefer the old fashioned ‘whip’ so we can hurl ‘whip abuse’ at anyone spending more than their fair share, but I went to Seville last year with some posh people (group of 7) who are far more ‘mature’ and this worked a treat! No one uses cash anymore amongst the group anyway so it helps on that aspect too.

 

[peregrina2000]

Two friends and I will be doing the CF together beginning in March.

The first thought I had was to wonder whether all three of you are from the same place. I ask because of what I see as extreme differences between Spaniards and people from the US when it comes to “cost sharing.” I have never met a Spaniard who wanted to do anything other than divide the total bill by the number of people. Though I know a few people from the US who approach it that way, the vast majority want to do a specific breakout on a per person basis. Who had the coffee? Who had the extra side? Who had the ice cream? Many restaurants in the US have solved the incredible headaches this causes for the server by simply issuing what we call “separate checks” for each person.

When walking on a camino with three Spaniards, me, and one other from the US, the Spanish practice was that we’d rotate through the coffee breaks, with everyone taking a turn. For those used to a specific breakdown, this was annoying, because on some breaks people had food, on others they didn’t, etc. etc. The total amounts at stake were probably not that much greater than the amount you spend on ATM withdrawals if you don’t obsess about which machines charge greater fees, but for those raised on a system of “cada uno mata lo suyo” it is hard to adjust.

So, I would just say that whatever the system, it should be clear up front so that people will not feel uncomfortable or shortchanged.

 

[cecirarias]

Two friends and I will be doing the CF together beginning in March. Some expenses might be shared (private lodging perhaps) and some will be individual. To avoid having to pay 3 times at the table or other places, it would be nice to have a simple system of paying and splitting later.

Does anyone have suggestions? TIA.

I think it all depends on the relationship you have with your friends - and probably, reading some threads, the cultural background. I did the Camino a lot, but I did travel with friends many times to other places. Most of the times, we just split the check into the number of people. For cash expenses, one of us collects the money and pays for those. If anyone has a really significant deviation in the expense - like ordered the most expensive dish plus dessert - then they usually leave the tip to balance it. Not required, but it is what most of us volunteer to do.
Money always seems like a sensitive topic, so definitively agree with those replying that it is best to agree upfront how the three of you feel comfortable managing.

 

[TravellingMan22]

I think it all depends on the relationship you have with your friends - and probably, reading some threads, the cultural background. I did the Camino a lot, but I did travel with friends many times to other places. Most of the times, we just split the check into the number of people. For cash expenses, one of us collects the money and pays for those. If anyone has a really significant deviation in the expense - like ordered the most expensive dish plus dessert - then they usually leave the tip to balance it. Not required, but it is what most of us volunteer to do.
Money always seems like a sensitive topic, so definitively agree with those replying that it is best to agree upfront how the three of you feel comfortable managing.

I guess it just depends on whether you want an app or an old school way. Obv there are a load of manual ways but probably worth trying an app!

It can also help folks who are collecting points or miles and are keen to pay the bills!

 

[henrythedog]

There is no system incapable of causing issues. It really depends how evenly-matched you are in terms of consumption. The accommodations pretty straightforward, it’s food and drink which differs.

A pencil and paper will do the same job as an app.

 

[Robo]

Some interesting approaches.
And helps to explain some 'pained' expressions from my fellow Pilgrims at times

I'm not sure if it's family, cultural or whatever, but our normal approach is to divide the bill by the number of people. And if someone had something particularly expensive, they would normally chip in extra.

Another approach I have often seen is that when ordering a meal, each person does a rough tally in their head. And then chips in an appropriate amount when the bill comes. Usually rounding up to ensure the one paying is not left short.

That works OK for one-off events like a meal, but I can see how longer term, like a whole Camino, might require a bit more of a 'process' to ensure fairness. The 'Whip' or 'Kitty' methods sounds best to me, unless of course as already pointed out, some people have expensive tastes and others don't.

When walking with others for a week or two, we have often just taken turns in settling meal and accomodation costs, with someone informally keeping a tally.

 

[TravellingMan22]

There is no system incapable of causing issues. It really depends how evenly-matched you are in terms of consumption. The accommodations pretty straightforward, it’s food and drink which differs.

A pencil and paper will do the same job as an app.

Well I think it depends on number of people, magnitude of spend, whether anyone is carrying cash, and the opportunity for some folks to racks up mile and points. Certainly my style is for a whip round and/or just an equal split of bill irrespective of consumption, but certainly the splitwise app was very helpful on the trip I mentioned, as there were quite a lot of lunches, dinners, trips, etc. Just a headache when you get the bill you owe a few a days after the trip!

 

[David]

Take out a credit card - use it for all shared costs .. when it builds up each pay in one third?

Oh - but who carries the card!

 

[henrythedog]

Well I think it depends on number of people, magnitude of spend, whether anyone is carrying cash, and the opportunity for some folks to racks up mile and points. Certainly my style is for a whip round and/or just an equal split of bill irrespective of consumption, but certainly the splitwise app was very helpful on the trip I mentioned, as there were quite a lot of lunches, dinners, trips, etc. Just a headache when you get the bill you owe a few a days after the trip!

Yes, I agree - although myself and friends are sufficiently well-funded that the tip would exceed any margin of error, the degree to which people (ok: Middle-aged men) can fall out over pennies is unbelievable.

On the other hand - having enjoyed a great evening in the company of strangers many years ago on the CF, I just paid the table’s bill and took myself off to bed. Several of my unwitting ‘guests’ tracked me down over the next few days and insisted on paying their share.

I walk alone now, it makes the mathematics easier.

 

[Tincatinker]

Students of Spanish culture may have noticed the variegated family groups that do that table full of Jamon, shrimp, pulpo, the odd leg of lamb, some salad and a bunch of postres there’ll probably have been a jarra or two. The Brandy and the Aguadiente come out amongst the wreckage. Traditionally the oldest man at the table picks up the tab. Works well in the society of the Dons. A bit harsh on the less well endowed.

When, sometimes, the bill lands I’ll rather cover it than watch my children and their mates wriggle and writhe over who ate what and with which spoon. And, frankly, if you’re travelling with people who can’t work it all out in their heads, nor understand the basics of payback and share… I do not see nor understand how an (expletive deleted) app is going to help

 

[3ball]

I use the app Splitwise. As usage of credit cards/ tap increases, it feels easier than maintaining a physical purse. And it can handle currency differences as well as changing percentages.

That sounds like a fine idea -- I will check it out. Thanks.

 

[J Willhaus]

Not really the same, but in January I took 11 university students on the Camino as a part of a class. I set a budget and everyone knew they had to eat under that budget. I also picked all the lodging. Each student paid the estimated amount in advance and I paid all the bills. If they wanted something extra, they had spending money.

Set a budget if you are splitting 3 ways. One person is the banker.

 

[3ball]

I am just looking to escape the indecision and hassle. One system accepted by all 3 in advance will be a huge improvement over the alternatives of discussion or suspicions of unfairness.

It seems like if we roughly agree to all drink either wine or beer, and order a round each time, and agree to be within 30 percent (or so) on food we should be good enough.

Do many groups seek to run separate checks?

 

[henrythedog]

Do many groups seek to run separate checks?

Not really a recognised concept in Spain.

I can’t figure out where you’re from, but if it’s a culture where the staff are expected to be subservient, obsequious and rely on tips; Spain’s not like that. You’ll get one bill.

 

[Tincatinker]

Do many groups seek to run separate checks?

Yes, often. Hence the frequent signs posted behind the jump “No hay cuenta compartida”

If you’re eating the menu del dia, or, the gods forbid, the menu Peregrino, then just put your €10/12/15 on the table and be gone.

If you’re messing about on the Calle Laurel in Logrono with your lovely new Camino family just take the hit and hope that another family member will take the next one

 

[C clearly]

There is no system incapable of causing issues. It really depends how evenly-matched you are in terms of consumption. The accommodations pretty straightforward, it’s food and drink which differs.

A pencil and paper will do the same job as an app.

So true! What @peregrina2000 and I did was to often pay our own bills, but keep a running tab on paper of those expenses that we shared. We would balance that out by knowing who was ahead in the tally, and then the other person would pay the next shared bill. Every once in a while, we'd pay out.

I don't recall that "separate checks" was viewed as totally foreign. It was accepted, but I'm talking about 2 demure old ladies with simple orders - not a table full of raucous individuals arguing about who ordered what.

 

[henrythedog]

So true! What @peregrina2000 and I did was to often pay our own bills, but keep a running tab on paper of those expenses that we shared. We would balance that out by knowing who was ahead in the tally, and then the other person would pay the next shared bill. Every once in a while, we'd pay out.

I don't recall that "separate checks" was viewed as totally foreign. It was accepted, but I'm talking about 2 demure old ladies with simple orders - not a table full of raucous individuals arguing about who ordered what.

Demure?

Old? . It’s only a number.

 

[auburnfive]

We had pre-booked our accommodation, so in advance it didn’t take long to figure out the split between 3 of us so that we all payed close to the same Some accommodation was billed in advance, we had done a spreadsheet of who was to cover the bill for hotel/ auberge, but just one person paid each night. Meals were pretty easy, mostly we looked at the bill and roughly figured out who owed what and put in our cash. Coffee, grocery store purchases were just cash individually. On occasion we took turns covering a meal with a credit card, and didn’t worry if one of the meals was a few euro more.

 

[Kirkie]

Students of Spanish culture may have noticed the variegated family groups that do that table full of Jamon, shrimp, pulpo, the odd leg of lamb, some salad and a bunch of postres there’ll probably have been a jarra or two. The Brandy and the Aguadiente come out amongst the wreckage. Traditionally the oldest man at the table picks up the tab. Works well in the society of the Dons. A bit harsh on the less well endowed.

When, sometimes, the bill lands I’ll rather cover it than watch my children and their mates wriggle and writhe over who ate what and with which spoon. And, frankly, if you’re travelling with people who can’t work it all out in their heads, nor understand the basics of payback and share… I do not see nor understand how an (expletive deleted) app is going to help

Before reading any more, my widowed brother says this: I don't care. He keeps the local economy going in a variety of ways that makes me just say: wow!
The same brother told his daughters: don't check the price in another shop. You have it, move on.
He was not popular in the last job he was in. He moved from business to university purchasing. The professors did not understand but the economists did.
Returning to the initial premise, Revolut is a local whatever app that allows shared contributions with a tap here and a tap there. I just use it to repay my neighbour when the window cleaner has been along to clean our windows!

edit: the professors may have understood, but did not like the new direction.

 

[TravellingMan22]

Indeed, banking apps (I.e Monzo) and service providers (I.e Uber) are certainly moving into the ‘bill splitting’ space.

 

[Camino Chrissy]

When I walked the Le Puy with my two friends it was easy because the gites always included a lovely dinner, so we each paid our own each day. During the day as we walked, we each used our own little stash of euros to pay for any incidentals we needed or wanted. It was easy peasy.

 

[Keyser]

If possible where you reside, what about opening accounts in Revolut. Best method I have ever come across to sharing costs & transferring monies to friends.

 

[mla1]

On a recent trip with a group of 8 friends we used an app called Tricount. It was fantastic. Not only did it help us to sort out the expenses shared by all 8 of us, but also the expenses (coffees, meals, parking) shared by only 2 or 3 of us. It was very simple. My partner and I (we try to keep our money separate) now use it when we travel - though we usually forget to settle up at the end!

 

[Sue127]

What worked for me is having a kitty, into which everyone pays the same amount. Topping up as necessary.

Did this with friends on a reunion. No need to work out exact amounts unless someone is obviously spending a lot more than the others

 

[t2andreo]

There is no system incapable of causing issues. It really depends how evenly-matched you are in terms of consumption. The accommodations pretty straightforward, it’s food and drink which differs.

A pencil and paper will do the same job as an app.

I also adhere to my long-standing, personal practice of "among friends, no score is kept..."

Subject to pre-arrangements, like who handles shared accommodation costs, etc., I just allow things to flow organically. I cannot recall a time when I felt genuinely put-upon.

I rarely balk, unless one of the group starts to outright abuse the non-system. Only then, will I take the miscreant aside for a private discussion. That always sorts matters.

I find that most adults will behave that way if I let them know that I trust their judgement. My practice is always the path of least resistance.

Hope this helps.

Tom

 

[mattythedog]

Two friends and I will be doing the CF together beginning in March. Some expenses might be shared (private lodging perhaps) and some will be individual. To avoid having to pay 3 times at the table or other places, it would be nice to have a simple system of paying and splitting later.

Does anyone have suggestions? TIA.

On Camino, it is vey easy to ask for separate checks if paying by credit card….or otherwise. Waiter will usually just bring a card reader right to the table and get each of you. Did it at San Martin Pinario last night with 13 at the table. About half gave cash. Took about 2 minutes for all to pay. Cards are much faster than cash and making change, and they build frequent flyer miles. Some places don’t take cards, so just put your share of cash on the table.

 

[bullingtonce]

Two friends and I will be doing the CF together beginning in March. Some expenses might be shared (private lodging perhaps) and some will be individual. To avoid having to pay 3 times at the table or other places, it would be nice to have a simple system of paying and splitting later.

Does anyone have suggestions? TIA.

Recommend focusing more on the Camino itself as opposed to minor and inconsequential matters like this. For "good" friends, this is not an issue. Chuck

 

[RRat]

Two friends and I will be doing the CF together beginning in March. Some expenses might be shared (private lodging perhaps) and some will be individual. To avoid having to pay 3 times at the table or other places, it would be nice to have a simple system of paying and splitting later.

Does anyone have suggestions? TIA.

The Camino can be a shared experience but not necessarily with the individuals you start with. Best not to make plans Assume you will encounter expenses as an individual. One twisted sock, a forgotten item, new friend, or something worse, and all the best plans dissappear.

 

[SabsP]

Recommend focusing more on the Camino itself as opposed to minor and inconsequential matters like this. For "good" friends, this is not an issue. Chuck

I think differently.
Just because you are good friends there can be more openness to talk about this.

 

[K_Lynn]

On some trips with friends we've all put X amount in the kitty for shared expenses and topped it up as needed. For my last Camino with my sister, I put all our accommodations and airline tickets on my credit card and she either paid cash or used her credit card for meals/train tickets/taxis. At the end of the holiday we added up our charges and divided by two and e-transferred the difference.

A few times on my first Camino, I offered to pick up the cheque at the table on my credit card and had everyone give me their cash - and volunteered a discount to avoid the inevitable "Her meal was 2 Euros more than mine, so I don't want the bill divided evenly" Whatever, give me 10 each and I'm a happy camper I can buy you all a glass of wine, no big deal.

 

[henrythedog]

On some trips with friends we've all put X amount in the kitty for shared expenses and topped it up as needed. For my last Camino with my sister, I put all our accommodations and airline tickets on my credit card and she either paid cash or used her credit card for meals/train tickets/taxis. At the end of the holiday we added up our charges and divided by two and e-transferred the difference.

A few times on my first Camino, I offered to pick up the cheque at the table on my credit card and had everyone give me their cash - and volunteered a discount to avoid the inevitable "Her meal was 2 Euros more than mine, so I don't want the bill divided evenly" Whatever, give me 10 each and I'm a happy camper I can buy you all a glass of wine, no big deal.

Regrettably for every giver, there’s a taker - even amongst the best of friends. If I’m ever down to my last few euros, I’ll think about it but until then a glass of wine here or there is of no consequence.

I still recall a childhood friend - who now runs a large business in the UK and has more money than he can lift who, when the 1/2p coin was discontinued would fill his car up with fuel to a round number plus 1/2p, so as to not pay the minuscule excess., It, clearly, was not for meaningful profit but it showed his character.

 

[SabsP]

I remenber one evening in a small villagebar on the Francés ( early stages ) when seven from our albergue went for some drinks. I thought it was easier to split it in seven. Two out of the seven wanted that we counted everyone's drinks separately because they did not drink wine. So I did.
While the five of us had two wines each ( a leisurely tempo ) the other two each had three sodas. Guess what was cheaper: yup, the wine.

 

[JCLima]

I remenber one evening in a small villagebar on the Francés ( early stages ) when seven from our albergue went for some drinks.I thought it was easier to split it in seven. Two out of the seven wanted that we counted everyone's drinks separately because they did not drink wine. So I did.
While the five of us had two wines each ( a leisurely tempo ) the other two each had three sodas. Guess what was cheaper: yup, the wine.

They didn't want you to pay more because of their drinks! They were clearly being considerate #jk

 

[duncanwhyte]

Is this the opening scene to 'Reservoir Pilgrims '.....

 

[J Willhaus]

Ok, well on the other hand, I am that super cheap person who shops with coupons at home and makes a grocery list and meal plans based on the weekly grocery sales items. I also don't eat dessert which is often a part of the meal in Spain and I always feel a little ripped off (although Phil usually gladly eats both of our desserts.)

If one of your friends is a person who keeps track of spending like me in a little notebook or in an online spreadsheet when traveling, dissatisfaction could could come out in a rant during a fit of crankiness after a particularly challenging day. Do discuss between the three of you and make sure you are all in real agreement of whatever method you choose.

 

[Tony Lenton]

Two friends and I will be doing the CF together beginning in March. Some expenses might be shared (private lodging perhaps) and some will be individual. To avoid having to pay 3 times at the table or other places, it would be nice to have a simple system of paying and splitting later.

Does anyone have suggestions? TIA.

Get a Monzo card and make equal top ups.

 

[Anamiri]

Have done this with as many as 6. It works fine, so long as everyone eats and drinks at about the same level. One person with more liberal taste in a group of frugal folk would be hard to balance. Maybe having a group agreement ahead of time if that's the case.

Yes, because of this I prefer to just pay for myself, it would double my costs to have a shared kitty. I will often eat two entrees for instance and have one wine, whilst others eat their way through a menu and a bottle. I prefer to take fruit with me and snack, and have smaller meals - personal preference, I hate the feeling of overeating. I will do the same at breakfast, two small breakfasts a few hours apart suits me better than one large one.

It often worked out that someone would have only a credit card, and those of us with cash would give the correct amount for our meal to them.

 

[Slkalina]

Hi, we use an app called Tricount. It is free. Each person who pays inputs the data. The app shows the balances. Very easy to use.

 

[mattythedog]

The Camino can be a shared experience but not necessarily with the individuals you start with. Best not to make plans Assume you will encounter expenses as an individual. One twisted sock, a forgotten item, new friend, or something worse, and all the best plans dissappear.

You are sooooo coorect!

 

[Telboyo]

Have done this with as many as 6. It works fine, so long as everyone eats and drinks at about the same level. One person with more liberal taste in a group of frugal folk would be hard to balance. Maybe having a group agreement ahead of time if that's the case.

in my experience i have found that no money gets spent because it is impossible to get 6 people to agree on where to eat.

 

[mattythedog]

in my experience i have found that no money gets spent because it is impossible to get 6 people to agree on where to eat.

That’s why I travel alone, and then invite myself to sit at a table already populated.

 

[Jarrad]

I still recall a childhood friend - who now runs a large business in the UK and has more money than he can lift who, when the 1/2p coin was discontinued would fill his car up with fuel to a round number plus 1/2p, so as to not pay the minuscule excess., It, clearly, was not for meaningful profit but it showed his character.

Wait -- I know that guy! As a poor grad student, I spent a week in a fishing camp in Maine with him. More money than you could count, yet tighter than a fish's ventral pore.

From that experience, I've learned two things: (1) be generous when the opportunity presents itself, and (2) pooling cash with friends you want to keep is a bad idea. Of course, your mileage may vary.

 

[Robo]

in my experience i have found that no money gets spent because it is impossible to get 6 people to agree on where to eat.

So true.

I have found that,

Pilgrims First Rule of Dining

the difficulty in selecting a dining venue increases by the square of the number of Pilgrims dining!
2 - 3 being manageable

Pilgrims Second Rule of Dining

the difficulty in the selection of a dining venue decreases, by the square root of the number of dining options available times the square of the number of Pilgrims dining.

i.e. If there is only one place to eat. No problem!

 

[3ball]

I didn't want to deal with cash frequently, but maybe it will be necessary.

 

[Anamiri]

I didn't want to deal with cash frequently, but maybe it will be necessary.

Kind of depends on where you are, and the value of a meal. As my breakfasts are under 10 euro (the usual credit card minimum) I pay cash. Main meals are often over 10 euros so a credit card payment is possible.

 

[Bill905]

Whenever I have walked with a friend, we took pity on the servers etc. and we used an app called Tricount. Either of us could access the file which is cloud-based and something like a spreadsheet. We used it for meals, accommodations, groceries, transportation, etc. yet we still occasionally made our own individual purchases, such as souvenirs, that did not have to go into the spreadsheet. It is a great app for tracking shared expenses.

On the other end of the spectrum, when I walked the Camino Portugués with each of my granddaughters, it was always "The Bank of Da" !

 

[GraemeHall]

I don't have time to read all the responses.
We and our French friends use a wonderfulness app called Tricount. It keeps track of who has paid what and who needs to pay what and to whom to settle up.

 

[PiesIrlandeses]

Most pilgrims' meals will be a fixed-price menú del día.

Spain does not have a culture of tipping (rounding up is perfectly acceptable).

Why is sharing the bill/check even an issue?

Best to relax, and leave these unnecessary concerns behind.

 

[AidaYYC]

This is what I wrote in another thread when walking with a friend last month.

" We decided beforehand to split every bill in two (except of course personal stuff bought in supermarket ). Sometimes she would have two wines and I only one but another time I would have a dessert and she would not .
When walking with someone else than your lifepartner I think the issue of spending money is important to get straight before you start walking."

I was the bank and every night I counted the bills / tickets and she would pay me with a bankapp ( QR code ).

Usually splitting the bill at the table, paying for our own accommodations, but if we have incurred mutual expenses during the day, we settle with each other at the end of the day.

 

[SabsP]

Usually splitting the bill at the table, paying for our own accommodations, but if we have incurred mutual expenses during the day, we settle with each other at the end of the day.

Seeing I prebooked and sometimes already paid the double rooms the daily bill also included the price of the hostal/ pension.

 

[AidaYYC]

When I walked the Le Puy with my two friends it was easy because the gites always included a lovely dinner, so we each paid our own each day. During the day as we walked, we each used our own little stash of euros to pay for any incidentals we needed or wanted. It was easy peasy.

Exactly, less onerous

 

[AidaYYC]

I didn't want to deal with cash frequently, but maybe it will be necessary.

My preferred method

 

[AidaYYC]

Seeing I prebooked and sometimes already paid the double rooms the daily bill also included the price of the hostal/ pension.

In that case the other person owes you their portion for the accommodation to be settled on day of arrival at albergue/pension/hotel, which is what I did when my friend had joined me for the last stage on the past two caminos.

 

[SabsP]

In that case the other person owes you their portion for the accommodation to be settled on day of arrival at albergue/pension/hotel, which is what I did when my friend had joined me for the last stage on the past two caminos.

And like we did.
I wrote it already: if you know each other well enough it is quite easy to make decent arrangements.
I also know the view of my walkingbuddy on tipping or rounding up the bill.
When we had our celebration lunch in Santiago I gave a tip to the wonderful waiter. I knew I did not need to discuss it with walkingbuddy because of our shared views/ values.

Not everything is completely in balance all the time.
When we drive to semilocal walks she prefers to drive ( and paying petrol) so I pay the democratic charge ( organised walk) and the coffee/ cake during the break.

 

[grayland]

I think back to the earlier days when using credit cards was not a normal option. I still simply use cash for almost everything. That way I do not have a large cc statement to settle when I return home.

I wonder how the above schemes work when the "friends" involved have parted ways during the camino?
We have read many threads and posts over the years where well meaning folks have planned a camino together and then for various reasons have separated.

I have walked many routes with my wife which, of course, does not involved tracking funds.
I have on occasion walked with a friend and we simply paid for our own expenses as they occurred or simply treated each other from time to time.

 

[chinacat]

I still recall a childhood friend - who now runs a large business in the UK and has more money than he can lift who, when the 1/2p coin was discontinued would fill his car up with fuel to a round number plus 1/2p, so as to not pay the minuscule excess., It, clearly, was not for meaningful profit but it showed his character.

“Look after the (half)pennies and the £s will look after themselves.”

By such methods shall the capitalists rise above the masses.

What gets me is when the pump rolls on to the next penny after I’ve finished putting the fuel in.

 

[Guneyd]

Ever since my student days over a decade ago, I've been making use of this online Dutch service with friends. These days, they also have an English version of the website at: https://splitser.com/?lang=en

You all would need to make accounts on the website and then you can create a list and share the expenses in that list. Everyone can add their own expenses and/or modify that of others. Once you're all done (e.g. finished with the camino), you can finish your list and then it'll automatically split who owes how much money to whom.

 

[Kiwi-family]

When my husband cycled with a friend earlier this year, they had an agreement that the first to get a puncture would shout drinks that day! Not helpful to the OP's question. My hubby kept a tally of everything and they squared off at the end. It's really not that hard.

 

[Francis K]

Two friends and I will be doing the CF together beginning in March. Some expenses might be shared (private lodging perhaps) and some will be individual. To avoid having to pay 3 times at the table or other places, it would be nice to have a simple system of paying and splitting later.

Does anyone have suggestions? TIA.

On our caminos we used Monzo. There are similar apps/banks, but it is easier if all the group uses the same one. Then if I pay a bill, I just split it with the others. They get requests on their smartphones to pay me back their portion, which they can agree with a single click, decline, or pretend they didn't see it . If someone eats/drinks something extra, the app lets you tweak with the request before you send it. As you are travelling with friends, there should not be much in the way if argument. The thing is to send the request quite quickly, as you might forget. On a few occasions I had to remind my sister to send her requests out so that she would not be shortchanged by the rest of us

 

[Clycobb]

We used an app called Splitwise. It works whether you are paying cash or card. You don't have to use the app to actually settle up at the end, so it's perfectly safe. Works with any number of people.

 

[Mendo girl]

Two friends and I will be doing the CF together beginning in March. Some expenses might be shared (private lodging perhaps) and some will be individual. To avoid having to pay 3 times at the table or other places, it would be nice to have a simple system of paying and splitting later.

Does anyone have suggestions? TIA.

The app Splitwise is fantastic! I have used it with several friends at a time.

 

[pagespan]

I use an app called “cost split” which is free and easy to set up. It allows you to input costs in any currency (but you have to provide the exchange rate) and to split costs unevenly (eg there are 3 of you traveling but one night only two people decide to go out for dinner) and at the end tabulates it all and tells you who needs to be who how much.

‎Cost Split

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I use SplitWise, which does more or less the same thing.

 

[truenorthpilgrm]

Recommend focusing more on the Camino itself as opposed to minor and inconsequential matters like this. For "good" friends, this is not an issue. Chuck

Ah, but that's not what the OP asked, is it Chuck? Recommend focusing on what the OP is asking, not your expectations (which didn't have anything to do with the original query). If you can offer up helpful advice, based on what is actually being asked, great. If not, also great.

Being a good listener means having the willingness to set aside your personal expectations in order to actively engage in good conversation.

 

[Peter Fransiscus]

Two friends and I will be doing the CF together beginning in March. Some expenses might be shared (private lodging perhaps) and some will be individual. To avoid having to pay 3 times at the table or other places, it would be nice to have a simple system of paying and splitting later.

Does anyone have suggestions? TIA.

By yourself a new wallet, put €200,00 (or more) each in it and make one off you in charge of the money. That will be the person paying the bills.

 

[taigirl]

Download an app called Splid. Very easy to use. Can link everyone in the group so they all know who owes to whom.