Hi Terri,
I love the idea not to rush the start!
I have stayed multiple nights at a couple of gites in SJPP: Gite Etoile (
http://www.pelerinage-saint-jacques-compostelle.com/en/gite) and Gite Beilari when it was L'Esprit du Chemin (
http://www.pelerinage-saint-jacques-compostelle.com/en/gite). Both will have English-speakers on hand, and both will be able to respond to emails in English.
Keep in mind that gites close during the day, from around 9:00m to 4:00pm, and everyone has to be out during those hours. If you want to have access to your room and the facility during the day hours, you will need to book into a hotel or B&B.
Maybe get a private room for a couple of nights, then move to a gite for the night before you walk so you can meet up with pilgrims starting on the same day?
Enjoy your journey!
Nancy