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I totally understand Jeff. On my first solo Camino, my beloved Riley had recently died, & he was obviously worried about me being on my own, so the first day, as I started out from Sarria, all these dogs kept appearing 'out of nowhere' on my trail. I had Riley's pic on a key-ring, on my ruck-sack, & I honestly think he was sending out a 'call' to any 'Tom, Dick, or Harry' dog, "please mind my mammy"!I see what you did there
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but I didn't want to be tailed all across Spain!
I think I have a different understanding of pilgrimage than you do. Perhaps because my introduction to the concept was Chaucer's Canterbury Tales.To any who thought my "go alone, go alone, go alone!" post was too strong I thought I would try to explain, from my perspective. I have walked alone and also with a good friend. Have enjoyed both equally but in very different ways.
It is like this. There is pilgrimage and there is Camino, and they are different.
A pilgrimage is the same mindset and intent as going to a retreat in a monastery or convent.
You go alone.
First thing they do is to take all your communication devices away.
This is how it is supposed to be - no distractions, just you, universe, God (or whatever name you wish to use).
You will meet and sometimes become friends with monks/nuns, have sometimes joyful mealtimes, but will spend a lot of time totally alone, even during the services you will be alone.
The only differences between a religious retreat and a pilgrimage is that in Spain you will not have a spiritual guide with you and you will probably walk 500 miles
A Camino is going on the pilgrim route and moving towards Santiago. If it doesn't have a deep spiritual element then technically it is a hike, a holiday, tourism.
On a Camino you can go with whomever you want, alone or with others. Use your phone, take a laptop or pad and write blogs and send photos of the meals you are eating, stick earbuds in and listen to songs, etc.
So it is about intent.
Neither is superior to the other, they both have value, both can be visited by synchronicity, the breath of the Spirit, all are called - though I would lean towards pilgrimage as it is a Roman Catholic pilgrim route to the remains of a saint, not a hiking holiday. Therefore my statement - Go Alone.
For most pilgrims this may be the only time they have been alone in their whole lives. Childhood, school, college, work, girl/boyfriends, marriage, children, family again - never ever alone, for decades and decades - so this, for anyone reading this and being afraid about the newness of actually being alone - be not afraid, all is well, go alone xx
Buen Camino all.
I started my Camino Frances on my own in September 2021. By SJPP I was meeting people and walking with them. The nature of pilgrims walking makes it very easy to greet each other and begin a conversation. I say start on your own and allow your Camino to naturally unfold.I'm planning on doing the Frances in May-June and have told numerous people of my plans. I've had several people offer to go with me. Some find it odd that I would go by myself. However, I want to walk at my own pace, stop when I want to stop, stay where I want to stay. Am I being selfish? While walking I'm content to walk with someone else 25% of the time but the rest of the time I prefer to walk solo. Once reaching my destination or even stopping for a break I love socializing, so I'm not a grumpy old man, well maybe oldAnybody else feel the same?
Like others who have commented above, it is a matter of following what suits you.I'm planning on doing the Frances in May-June and have told numerous people of my plans. I've had several people offer to go with me. Some find it odd that I would go by myself. However, I want to walk at my own pace, stop when I want to stop, stay where I want to stay. Am I being selfish? While walking I'm content to walk with someone else 25% of the time but the rest of the time I prefer to walk solo. Once reaching my destination or even stopping for a break I love socializing, so I'm not a grumpy old man, well maybe oldAnybody else feel the same?
Not selfish at all, I walked the Frances alone, but you really are never alone. Then did the Portugues with my son, once we both agreed to just walk our own pace and meet up at the end of the day, we both enjoyed the walk much more. And I’m the same as you I like yo socialize at stops and the end of the day.Selfish? Not at all! And even if it is, who are you hurting or harming with this 'selfish' decision? I love walking on my own, for all the reasons you mention. I love meeting new people, which is harder if you are already with someone, because others might think you prefer your own company. I sometimes prefer walking in silence, other times I enjoy chatting all day, sometimes I want to walk fast and sometimes slow, and sometimes I decide on the spur of the moment to stop for the day just because the restaurant across the street has got pork cheeks on the menu. Some people think it is strange that I prefer to walk alone, and that I prefer to carry my (lightweight) pack instead of forwarding it, but I love it because it gives me so much freedom and flexibility to follow my own heart and mind. Selfish is such a negatively loaded word, how about telling them that you are giving yourself some time and space? That is after all what you are doing. Call it self-care, not selfish. Buen camino to you!
When I'm on the comino I too prefer to walk alone. I find it gives me not only the freedom to travel at my own speed, but it allows me to appreciate what I'm seeing, hearing, and feeling. I agree - it is "self-care" and not selfishness.Selfish? Not at all! And even if it is, who are you hurting or harming with this 'selfish' decision? I love walking on my own, for all the reasons you mention. I love meeting new people, which is harder if you are already with someone, because others might think you prefer your own company. I sometimes prefer walking in silence, other times I enjoy chatting all day, sometimes I want to walk fast and sometimes slow, and sometimes I decide on the spur of the moment to stop for the day just because the restaurant across the street has got pork cheeks on the menu. Some people think it is strange that I prefer to walk alone, and that I prefer to carry my (lightweight) pack instead of forwarding it, but I love it because it gives me so much freedom and flexibility to follow my own heart and mind. Selfish is such a negatively loaded word, how about telling them that you are giving yourself some time and space? That is after all what you are doing. Call it self-care, not selfish. Buen camino to you!
As a 68 year old woman in sept 2018, i walked the entire camino frances alone, safely, and successfully. Do it! As i explained to my worried friends and family, one is never alone on the camino, and neither will you be, especially if you walk in may as you plan. You will be alone very rarely. Have your own camino your own way.I'm planning on doing the Frances in May-June and have told numerous people of my plans. I've had several people offer to go with me. Some find it odd that I would go by myself. However, I want to walk at my own pace, stop when I want to stop, stay where I want to stay. Am I being selfish? While walking I'm content to walk with someone else 25% of the time but the rest of the time I prefer to walk solo. Once reaching my destination or even stopping for a break I love socializing, so I'm not a grumpy old man, well maybe oldAnybody else feel the same?
Go on your own. Do not go with people you already know. If you do, you will inhibit interaction with other caminantes. It will allow you to experience solitutude on the road and the company of strangers equally alone. It is major part of the experience if not at its very core.I'm planning on doing the Frances in May-June and have told numerous people of my plans. I've had several people offer to go with me. Some find it odd that I would go by myself. However, I want to walk at my own pace, stop when I want to stop, stay where I want to stay. Am I being selfish? While walking I'm content to walk with someone else 25% of the time but the rest of the time I prefer to walk solo. Once reaching my destination or even stopping for a break I love socializing, so I'm not a grumpy old man, well maybe oldAnybody else feel the same?
I walked alone the entire Frances from SJPP to Finnesterre. It was great. No compromises. You do what you want to do. Somedays, I would walk further when I felt like I could.I'm planning on doing the Frances in May-June and have told numerous people of my plans. I've had several people offer to go with me. Some find it odd that I would go by myself. However, I want to walk at my own pace, stop when I want to stop, stay where I want to stay. Am I being selfish? While walking I'm content to walk with someone else 25% of the time but the rest of the time I prefer to walk solo. Once reaching my destination or even stopping for a break I love socializing, so I'm not a grumpy old man, well maybe oldAnybody else feel the same?
I'm bringing my rosary beads, but I'll use them in private, unless I am accosted by 'a Jane'I knew nothing about contrails till I spent the night in the lovely albergue in Arrés on the Aragonés, where the hospitalero took us all to a great viewing spot for the sunset and proceeded to tell us all about them. Maybe people who believe in contrails are drawn to the Camino. Sorry, off-topic, I know.
BTW, I got a tip from an iconic Camino forum member, who advises that the best way to keep people from bothering you when you are walking is to carry rosary beads and mumble to yourself.
I did it twice alone and it was excellent for me. But you are never alone on the Camino. You will end up meeting all kinds of interesting people along the Way. Some people walk together for a while and then split up usually because of walking speed differences or time schedules. Walking at your own pace is super important so, if you do walk with someone, the faster walker has to walk at the slower walker's pace. Otherwise, the slower walker will probably develop blisters or even a foot injury.I'm planning on doing the Frances in May-June and have told numerous people of my plans. I've had several people offer to go with me. Some find it odd that I would go by myself. However, I want to walk at my own pace, stop when I want to stop, stay where I want to stay. Am I being selfish? While walking I'm content to walk with someone else 25% of the time but the rest of the time I prefer to walk solo. Once reaching my destination or even stopping for a break I love socializing, so I'm not a grumpy old man, well maybe oldAnybody else feel the same?
I'm planning on doing the Frances in May-June and have told numerous people of my plans. I've had several people offer to go with me. Some find it odd that I would go by myself. However, I want to walk at my own pace, stop when I want to stop, stay where I want to stay. Am I being selfish? While walking I'm content to walk with someone else 25% of the time but the rest of the time I prefer to walk solo. Once reaching my destination or even stopping for a break I love socializing, so I'm not a grumpy old man, well maybe oldAnybody else feel the same? Totally agree, too much chatter interrupts one’s internal dialogue
It is your Camino. If you want to walk alone. Walk alone. When you are there, if you want to walk with others, walk with others.I'm planning on doing the Frances in May-June and have told numerous people of my plans. I've had several people offer to go with me. Some find it odd that I would go by myself. However, I want to walk at my own pace, stop when I want to stop, stay where I want to stay. Am I being selfish? While walking I'm content to walk with someone else 25% of the time but the rest of the time I prefer to walk solo. Once reaching my destination or even stopping for a break I love socializing, so I'm not a grumpy old man, well maybe oldAnybody else feel the same?
You are so right Tomas! When you walk alone, your senses are alive & more in touch with what's going on around you. I love chatting to people along the way sometimes, but my favourite is meandering through a meadow alone, preferably early morning, & listening to those beautiful birds welcoming in another new day. I often end up speaking to them & asking advice for the journey ahead. Birds are 'messengers from above', so they can take our prayers, questions, pleas & troubles straight up to heaven, to be solved. That way, you've already 'lightened your load' at the start of the day, & the birds are delighted because they now have a 'mission to accomplish'! Of the 7 'weekly journeys' I've done on Camino, the 3 solo ones were my favourite, because I had time for reflection, that I didn't even know I needed to do; but greatly benefitted from it. I'm a big believer in angels & 'signs from above', & on one particular Camino was reflecting on my job, where I really felt I was being under appreciated, over-worked, & just not enjoying it anymore. I was 'talking this all out' (me & the angels) & I asked should I continue working there? My dilemma was, I really liked the kid I was caring for; we really 'connected' & I could see he was benefitting from my guidance & knowledge, but his mother had 'forgotten' to pay me, two weeks in a row, & I'd also had to call a family member one evening as she hadn't returned from work, & I was already delayed for my long car journey home. I empathised with her situation, as her husband worked abroad & she was 'under pressure' with an autistic little boy & 2 demanding teenagers, who'd come in from school hungry, so I'd make them dinner, & help with 'teenage issues' & chats about sport or whatever, but I was arriving home at 8 in the evening, totally shattered & often no pay! One time I had to phone a friend on the way home, to borrow money for petrol. She hadn't arrived home that Friday evening, so I didn't get paid. Anyways, I'm telling all this to the birds & the angels one day, explaing that I really love (all) the kids, even though I'm only supposed to be looking after one; so could they please 'direct me' about what I should do? Later that day, as I walked along in the afternoon sun, I could see a plane in the distance, but was too engrossed in smelling the lovely plants around me & looking across at the path I had just walked. I then heard a squalk, & as I looked up, there was a huge 'X' in the sky. I took that as a 'Get Out' or 'Leave Now' from the job. It could have been a big 'kiss' from my spirit guide (my grandfather), who's always with me, especially 'in times of need', but I always go with my gut instinct, & first thought, ... & so I left the job on my return home. I really missed [name deleted], (who was 11 years old) a lot. He phoned me that Christmas to say he'd gotten a new bicycle & his mother was now working part-time & they were doing lots of fun stuff together. She took the phone & said "thank you for leaving us; I learnt a valuable lesson & we are all now closer than ever". The Lord works in mysterious ways, ... & the Camino always provides!When I'm on the comino I too prefer to walk alone. I find it gives me not only the freedom to travel at my own speed, but it allows me to appreciate what I'm seeing, hearing, and feeling. I agree - it is "self-care" and not selfishness.
I have done both. By myself and with my son. Both were extremely valuable experiences. I wouldn't say that the core Camino experience was lacking when I walked with my son, nor were my interactions with other peregrinos lessened. There were times we walked together and other times our paces were different during the day's walk and we walked apart. I still got a chance to experience solitude on the road.Go on your own. Do not go with people you already know. If you do, you will inhibit interaction with other caminantes. It will allow you to experience solitutude on the road and the company of strangers equally alone. It is major part of the experience if not at its very core.
I my opinion - the way you think of your Camino is absolutely, the right Camino. The pace . the pauses, the choice of albergue. You don't risk pushing yourself or getting slower for that matter, which is both hard in equally physical and mental sense. You also get easier contact with others when you are alone and sometimes you do walk along with someone for a while. In the afternoon/evening, as you say, it is the time to socialise, this is awesome. Eating together and get all the stories from fellow pilgrims from al over the world. Buen Camino to youI'm planning on doing the Frances in May-June and have told numerous people of my plans. I've had several people offer to go with me. Some find it odd that I would go by myself. However, I want to walk at my own pace, stop when I want to stop, stay where I want to stay. Am I being selfish? While walking I'm content to walk with someone else 25% of the time but the rest of the time I prefer to walk solo. Once reaching my destination or even stopping for a break I love socializing, so I'm not a grumpy old man, well maybe oldAnybody else feel the same?
I intend to walk alone, but my biggest worry is not being able to get rid of unwanted company!There is nothing wrong with walking alone. I did it by myself as during my first camino last year in Sep 2021 (Frances from Sarria to Santiago de Compostela). What I discovered though is that there were others like me doing it alone many for personal reasons like me to recharge and review my life and do some retrospection.
Having said this, at least in Camino Frances, as it is the most popular route, you will never be alone. You will always find company along the way during the walk or afterwards during lunch or dinner.
So enjoy and dont feel strange if you do it alone.
Script: It's been so nice to chat. I'm really here for badly needed time to myself. Buen Camino.I intend to walk alone, but my biggest worry is not being able to get rid of unwanted company!
Yes, I suppose that might work.Script: It's been so nice to chat. I'm really here for badly needed time to myself. Buen Camino.
That's precisely why I prefer to walk other routes these days! On my first Camino I met about 30 other pilgrims over the whole 800km. The last time I walked the Camino Frances there were times when I saw that many in a second-long glance at the path ahead. I much prefer solitude to company when I walk.Having said this, at least in Camino Frances, as it is the most popular route, you will never be alone.
The somewhere important is "with myself".Yes, I suppose that might work.
I'm really quite good at getting rid of unwanted company in my usual life. And I'm not afraid to offend.
It just feels like in a Camino situation you're very exposed. You can't really pretend you have somewhere important to be.
I accept that it is an opportunity to work on a specific relationship away from the normal environment. However, I walked for a week bumping into two brothers who were doing the camino together. One brother was introvert and distant, the other brother extrovert and talkative. I felt that both of them would have been better served by going it alone rather than trying to maintain their relationship via the camino.I have done both. By myself and with my son. Both were extremely valuable experiences. I wouldn't say that the core Camino experience was lacking when I walked with my son, nor were my interactions with other peregrinos lessened. There were times we walked together and other times our paces were different during the day's walk and we walked apart. I still got a chance to experience solitude on the road.
I wouldn't advise against walking solo, nor imply that it is selfish. But nor would I advise against walking with a companion. It can be a deeply enriching experience, both for you as an individual and for the relationship.
I can't speak to their experience, only my own.I accept that it is an opportunity to work on a specific relationship away from the normal environment. However, I walked for a week bumping into two brothers who were doing the camino together. One brother was introvert and distant, the other brother extrovert and talkative. I felt that both of them would have been better served by going it alone rather than trying to maintain their relationship via the camino.
I will take greater care about who I give my contacts details to as it can be difficult to get rid of unwanted company afterwards too.I intend to walk alone, but my biggest worry is not being able to get rid of unwanted company!
On the camino frances, there is a party atmosphere for the first week down to Pamplona and La Rioja. Thereafter it becomes quieter especially on the meseta between Burgos and Leon. I found my best interactions with others during this time. In Galicia, after Sarria, you encounter the 100k crowd, who don't tend to share the same ethos as those who have walked 700k beforehand and once again it becomes more party like.Ever since I started thinking about and planning my first Camino I've never even considered walking it with someone else. I've been describing it as a kind of walking meditation to friends and family, and for me meditation is something best done solo.
However, I'm now in the position of figuring out how to delicately explain that to an old friend who will be in Europe around the same time I'll be walking this spring and who wants to join me for part of it. Reading through this thread has given me some ideas about how to approach the situation without causing offense and/or hurt feelings ... and has definitely validated my belief that a preference to walk by myself does not make me an antisocial weirdo
Almost two months until my solo Camino...I've got my wife's blessing to be be gone for 3 weeks. We have a 4 yr old son. I'm starting to have guilty feelings about going. I worry about something happening to me or my son and not being there for him.I'm planning on doing the Frances in May-June and have told numerous people of my plans. I've had several people offer to go with me. Some find it odd that I would go by myself. However, I want to walk at my own pace, stop when I want to stop, stay where I want to stay. Am I being selfish? While walking I'm content to walk with someone else 25% of the time but the rest of the time I prefer to walk solo. Once reaching my destination or even stopping for a break I love socializing, so I'm not a grumpy old man, well maybe oldAnybody else feel the same?
Throughout your life and your son's, there will be times when you are apart. It doesn't matter whether it's three weeks or three minutes. Things happen that you cannot control. Provided that you are happy that your wife can manage him without you and that you are not taking risks doing the camino eg health risks, there is little reason for concern. You may owe them for your absence, but they will be pleased to see the new man when you return.Almost two months until my solo Camino...I've got my wife's blessing to be be gone for 3 weeks. We have a 4 yr old son. I'm starting to have guilty feelings about going. I worry about something happening to me or my son and not being there for him.
Selfish? Odd? I think 'normal' is the word that immediately springs to mind, or maybe 'human'. There is nothing wrong with wanting to be alone. Or seeking company when you feel like it. Buen camino.I'm planning on doing the Frances in May-June and have told numerous people of my plans. I've had several people offer to go with me. Some find it odd that I would go by myself. However, I want to walk at my own pace, stop when I want to stop, stay where I want to stay. Am I being selfish? While walking I'm content to walk with someone else 25% of the time but the rest of the time I prefer to walk solo. Once reaching my destination or even stopping for a break I love socializing, so I'm not a grumpy old man, well maybe oldAnybody else feel the same?
@EL LECHERO Get rid of that 'guilt' now or you may stay home! I have a 4-year old grandson & if either my son or daughter-in-law gave each other's blessing for a 3-week 'escape', there would be no hesitation or guilt. The phrase 'gone in a flash' comes to mind!Almost two months until my solo Camino...I've got my wife's blessing to be be gone for 3 weeks. We have a 4 yr old son. I'm starting to have guilty feelings about going. I worry about something happening to me or my son and not being there for him.
in providing her blessing, your wife has given you a tremendous gift. Accept it.Almost two months until my solo Camino...I've got my wife's blessing to be be gone for 3 weeks. We have a 4 yr old son. I'm starting to have guilty feelings about going. I worry about something happening to me or my son and not being there for him.
Another note...i had the same second thoughts. I had been merrily planning my camino for months. Then i bought my plane ticket and nearly fell apart with fear. Not like me at all. I was consoled by a friend then i started packing. I never regretted it. The camino has something for you. Go and find it. Otherwise, you will regret backing out for the rest of your life.in providing her blessing, your wife has given you a tremendous gift. Accept it.
I took the train from Paris to St Jean PDP and felt terrified all along the way, thinking Wtf every second.Another note...i had the same second thoughts. I had been merrily planning my camino for months. Then i bought my plane ticket and nearly fell apart with fear. Not like me at all. I was consoled by a friend then i started packing. I never regretted it. The camino has something for you. Go and find it. Otherwise, you will regret backing out for the rest of your life.
Another note...i had the same second thoughts. I had been merrily planning my camino for months. Then i bought my plane ticket and nearly fell apart with fear. Not like me at all. I was consoled by a friend then i started packing. I never regretted it. The camino has something for you. Go and find it. Otherwise, you will regret backing out for the rest of your life.
Also, one has to be ok with telling a fellow pilgrim with whom you’ve been walking with that it’s time to part ways, that you want to walk alone. Americans in particular find it hard to say goodbye, end relationships without feeling badly. No harm no foul it’s just time to move on….. Now can I only follow my own advice and not get caught sneaking out of an albergue at 4 am just to avoid an uncomfortable conversation!I'm planning on doing the Frances in May-June and have told numerous people of my plans. I've had several people offer to go with me. Some find it odd that I would go by myself. However, I want to walk at my own pace, stop when I want to stop, stay where I want to stay. Am I being selfish? While walking I'm content to walk with someone else 25% of the time but the rest of the time I prefer to walk solo. Once reaching my destination or even stopping for a break I love socializing, so I'm not a grumpy old man, well maybe oldAnybody else feel the same?
I walked 5 different Caminos over the past 10 years. The first Camino was the Frances back in 2011, which I did with a friend. We walked at the same pace, so there were no issues about keeping up with each other. On all the other Caminos I undertook, I discovered that having a "partner" or "partners" can turn out to be a major hassle as so many issues can arise, which can totally mess up your timeline. I've come to the conclusion that at least initially , walking alone is the best way to go. Chances are, you'll meet people who walk at your pace on the trail and develop friendship(s) that way.It is your Camino. If you want to walk alone. Walk alone. When you are there, if you want to walk with others, walk with others.
There's absolutely nothing wrong with walking the Camino solo, just as there's absolutely nothing wrong with walking it in company. The right thing is what feels right to youI'm planning on doing the Frances in May-June and have told numerous people of my plans. I've had several people offer to go with me. Some find it odd that I would go by myself. However, I want to walk at my own pace, stop when I want to stop, stay where I want to stay. Am I being selfish? While walking I'm content to walk with someone else 25% of the time but the rest of the time I prefer to walk solo. Once reaching my destination or even stopping for a break I love socializing, so I'm not a grumpy old man, well maybe oldAnybody else feel the same?
Our daughter walked on her own several years back and had a wonderful time - sometimes she had adventures alone and learned things about herself, other times she met interesting people along the way and either walked with them or met up in the evenings. Do it any way you please.I'm planning on doing the Frances in May-June and have told numerous people of my plans. I've had several people offer to go with me. Some find it odd that I would go by myself. However, I want to walk at my own pace, stop when I want to stop, stay where I want to stay. Am I being selfish? While walking I'm content to walk with someone else 25% of the time but the rest of the time I prefer to walk solo. Once reaching my destination or even stopping for a break I love socializing, so I'm not a grumpy old man, well maybe oldAnybody else feel the same?
Hi Viva, I walked the whole of the Camino solo….many people do and you will find a lot of solo pilgrimsI'm planning on doing the Frances in May-June and have told numerous people of my plans. I've had several people offer to go with me. Some find it odd that I would go by myself. However, I want to walk at my own pace, stop when I want to stop, stay where I want to stay. Am I being selfish? While walking I'm content to walk with someone else 25% of the time but the rest of the time I prefer to walk solo. Once reaching my destination or even stopping for a break I love socializing, so I'm not a grumpy old man, well maybe oldAnybody else feel the same?
You will not be on your own for long !!!!I'm planning on doing the Frances in May-June and have told numerous people of my plans. I've had several people offer to go with me. Some find it odd that I would go by myself. However, I want to walk at my own pace, stop when I want to stop, stay where I want to stay. Am I being selfish? While walking I'm content to walk with someone else 25% of the time but the rest of the time I prefer to walk solo. Once reaching my destination or even stopping for a break I love socializing, so I'm not a grumpy old man, well maybe oldAnybody else feel the same?
In 2018 I walked the CF alone, beginning in Lourdes, France. I met plenty of new friends from all over the world. Being alone allowed me maximum flexibility. I was also much more open to meeting new people and walking with them. When I did walk alone, meditation and prayer were so easy. The beautiful scenery just makes you feel so happy to be alive.I'm planning on doing the Frances in May-June and have told numerous people of my plans. I've had several people offer to go with me. Some find it odd that I would go by myself. However, I want to walk at my own pace, stop when I want to stop, stay where I want to stay. Am I being selfish? While walking I'm content to walk with someone else 25% of the time but the rest of the time I prefer to walk solo. Once reaching my destination or even stopping for a break I love socializing, so I'm not a grumpy old man, well maybe oldAnybody else feel the same?
I am an older fellow (62 years old currently)I was an older fellow (62 years old at the time)
Buen Camino!
Yes. You should walk alone.I'm planning on doing the Frances in May-June and have told numerous people of my plans. I've had several people offer to go with me. Some find it odd that I would go by myself. However, I want to walk at my own pace, stop when I want to stop, stay where I want to stay. Am I being selfish? While walking I'm content to walk with someone else 25% of the time but the rest of the time I prefer to walk solo. Once reaching my destination or even stopping for a break I love socializing, so I'm not a grumpy old man, well maybe oldAnybody else feel the same?
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