- Time of past OR future Camino
- Various 2014-19
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Yeah, smug "Nyah nyah nyah nyah nyah..." definitely counts.On the grassy expanse of one albergue, I bared my unblistered feet. I thought that might have been very annoying.
Hee hee heee....thanks, Al!
this could definitely be annoying under duress. Meeting it halfway up some godforsken hill in the sleet would probably make my face do this:
I have a habit of walking out of the albergue in the morning and signing the old Fred Astaire classic or doing the same as I pass someone huddling along in the rain.
Thank you Phillypilgrim for an honest answer! I was complaining on line during our walk about insufferable bores who speak only of themselves and brag incessantly about their lives and abilities and one of my friends at home suggested since it was a pilgrimage I should think about accepting those people and understanding them. It was the best advice I received, not because it made their blather any more less about themselves, but it made me understand that I needed to mellow out.My annoying bit was continuously talking about "when I walked last year, blah, blah blah..."
It's awful and I kept falling into it. I apologize to all.
Yeah. Thanks Meri.Oh, and I thought punctuating my response with smilies would be bound to annoy someone
My annoying bit was continuously talking about "when I walked last year, blah, blah blah..."......
I have this annoying habit and it's been two and a half years since I walked my Camino. Honestly, I keep wanting to give myself a clout upside the head.........Too much reminding others of my last Camino.
I love this one. That's not annoying, it's subversive!talking to them while they are engrossed in their smart phones in cafes and bars.
........the one that really annoys people is talking to them while they are engrossed in their smart phones in cafes and bars.
..........That's not annoying, it's subversive!
Oh yes, Viranani, I was always polite, but I bet some of them were thinking 'Just get ahead if you really must, but damn well stay there!'Who knows Kiwi-d? Maybe people actually liked this (assuming you at least said 'g'day' or 'Buen Camino')??
Urban DictionaryBlatting at a rate of knots past a slow walker, only to have them overtake me 5 minutes later when I've stopped for a coffee, blatting past them again, only to have them overtake me 5 minutes later when I've stopped to do up a shoelace, blatting past again..... I'm surprised someone didn't push me over a bank.
I think that each and every one of us has annoying habits.....We are, none of us perfect, though so often we like to think that we are and we have to step back and 'think before we speak''.....that last little bit is one of MY most annoying habits and, like you Syl, I also hang my head in shame.Annoying? Blush! Offering to sort through other pilgrims backpacks because they have packed too much and telling them what to send home/ahead? Oh, and the next one would be my usual 'you should only put threads through blisters if you want to have a really nasty infection'. I guess I can be too often an insufferable knowing-all... Hangs head in shame, SY
Is it annoying if someone doesn't have annoying habits?
Ha ha...well, perhaps...But is this possible??Is it annoying if someone doesn't have annoying habits?
Unfortunately, yes. But top marks to you for being able just to ask that question.Ha ha...well, perhaps...But is this possible??
I want to learn this Sherpa trick, please... Pretty pleaseWhat a great subject! We can finally complain all we like - about ourselvesor will the Mods need to censor or save us
Pretty much guilty of most of the abovebut my particularly annoying habit is that I LOVE hills! Sorry folks, don't even puff or sweat going up (mountaineer's rest step, secret Sherpa trick)
Oh, and I thought punctuating my response with smilies would be bound to annoy someone
Yeah, Al, I think we can grant you that!One of my not annoying habits is to rest on hills and let others feel energised as the waltz on up past me?
Annie, I think that wouldn't count as annoying so much as I would be concerned. You can't help it, after all--and it's not like you enjoy coughing, right? (Along the same lines, a friend was telling me about her response to the guy in the bunk next to her, who was a BIG snorer--but every once in a while there'd be a long gap between breaths. It kept her awake not because of the noise so much but because she was wondering if and when he'd take the next breath.)It's not really a habit, it's a physical "thing."
I want to learn this Sherpa trick, please... Pretty please
Meri, I was just in Ladakh this summer and so wish I had known about this. Thank you very much.
I actually thought you were joking!
The syncronization with breath and steps comes naturally for me, but the rest step is an extra energetic bonus.
Yes, that's a good example just add a couple of walking poles into the mix and it gets even better. The slight lift as he locks the downward leg is the momentum that you can use to aid your next step upwards.Found a good video demonstrating that step. SY
From bare-bones remote trekking in Ladakh, I can well imagine. The kind of thing that in retrospect seems absurdly insane to have even considered.you really don't want to know what a 'Sherpa Short Cut' or a 'Go Quickly!' section is
From bare-bones remote trekking in Ladakh, I can well imagine. The kind of thing that in retrospect seems absurdly insane to have even considered.
What Phillypilgrim said, especially the last line.My annoying bit was continuously talking about "when I walked last year, blah, blah blah..."
It's awful and I kept falling into it. I apologize to all.
That's not annoying. That's just weird.When being greeted by a local with a "Buen Camino!" I would Buen Camino them back.
(Shhh...Don't tell anyone....
But we're probably all a bit eccentric.
I mean, how many people do you know (in your non-camino circles--not here, of course) who walks even 100km, let alone 800 or 1000?)
We don't? Oh. Now I'm confused. What we doing then?A rheumatologist told me recently after asking how I broke my foot: trust me, women of your age do not walk 800kms in some foreign country.
A rheumatologist told me recently after asking how I broke my foot: trust me, women of your age do not walk 800kms in some foreign country.
Me too! And I have to admit that I've been waiting for the rest of the story...Meri?@Wokabaut_Meri I love it! How did you respond?
So we all know what bugs us about OTHER pilgrims. But while replying to a post on another thread just now I found myself wondering...what do I do that most annoys other pilgrims and fellow albergue residents??
Why it hadn't occurred to me to think about this is easy--I'm the perfect pilgrim, right?
Uhhhh...NOT. Obviously that's a perfectly deluded thought.
So there's got to be something.
But I don't know which of many possibilities it'd be.
While I ponder about this--I'll come clean here and in public, I promise--does anyone else have a (perhaps amusing) pet flaw? (Gerard, you don't count--your stories are treasure troves of self-deprecatory humor already.)
Well said! But what is normal?? I don't really want to be " normal" in the conventional sense of the word. Of course those of us who walk the Caminos over and over again ARE essentric. The way we dress, where we sleep, the pounding of paths day after day,the way we interact with fellow pilgrims, the list goes on! And of course" normal" people think we are crazy. A few reactions like " you must be mad"!! When we tell people about the Camino. Then there are those who respond with great and genuine interest and this is where my annoying habit comes in. I can talk until the cows come home about the Camino -- to anyone,anywhere,so I may be quiet boring re this subject. It's nice being a bit essentric though isn't it ??(Shhh...Don't tell anyone....
But we're probably all a bit eccentric.
I mean, how many people do you know (in your non-camino circles--not here, of course) who walks even 100km, let alone 800 or 1000?)
Let's see, my annoying habits..... Sitting on the curb of small villages to eat my newly purchased bread and cheese while drinking a Fanta; asking pilgrims who complain about not finding accomodation at all or finding it not to their liking why they are in northern Spain walking; playing my ukulele at the cafes in the afternoon or the one that really annoys people is talking to them while they are engrossed in their smart phones in cafes and bars.
I'm sure I have any number of habits that annoy the crap out of folks.
It would definitely be annoying if I tried to do that.Playing of the ukulele is NEVER annoying - keep on plucking brother but try wean yourself off the Fanta and try KAZ instead)
On the grassy expanse of one albergue, I bared my unblistered feet. I thought that might have been very annoying.
Try the Kaz limon...even better.
Sometimes I think that's what got me to Santiago. I rate the difficulty of the day by how many Kaz it takes to get me from point A to point B. A 3-Kaz day is definitely a bear.
Long may you play, @obinkatoo!
Oooo, Victoria. Now you're treading on thinner ice.
This can be a real annoyance because no matter how careful we are, it shines in people's eyes. You can seriously piss people off (I only did that once..........)
Next time maybe take a book light (or as Kanga suggests, a Kindle app)?
You are absolved!I wanted to read until 10pm, i.e., not through the night, and I thought that it was consistent with albergue rules.
I think this is just a little harsh. No-one was being forced to stay up, and if they were sufficiently tired, it would have made little difference if the light was on or not.So 24/25 people who wanted to sleep had to stay up because you didn't want to use your battery, because the albergue does not enforce bedtime before that?! Guess you are not one of those people putting up ego- cairns along the way eithe
You are right, there are many alternatives to what she did, all of which involve much the same level of speculation about the situation at the time as @Anemone del Camino's criticism. One of the strengths of this forum is that it allows us to test our thinking about circumstances such as these, and @Victoria_Peregrina has admitted she would take a different approach in future. It might have been more productive to discuss that.I'm with Anemone on this.
Perhaps Victoria Peregrina could have been considerate and read her book in another room instead of insisting on her right to keep the lights on. We have the right to do many things but that doesn't always make them right. Just saying...
I'm not sure I understand the reason for the discussion that follows this post, as to whether @Victoria_Peregrina is right or wrong. Isn't the title to this thread "Your annoying habits"?I was treating my first Camino with utter reverence and tried to be considerate of everyone and everything. But on one occasion I failed to do so. After getting starved for reading, I bought a book in Leon and was reading it at every occasion until I finished it. In one of the albergues, people wanted to turn off the ceiling light but I insisted that it should be on until 10pm. I had a headlamp but did not want to waste its power during the time when I thought the general light could be kept on.
I don't know if I was completely wrong or partly right, but the next day I decided not to argue if I encountered similar circumstances and just use my headlight whenever I needed it.
Victoria
Quite right Doug and Icaros, thank you.One of the strengths of this forum is that it allows us to test our thinking about circumstances such as these, and @Victoria_Peregrina has admitted she would take a different approach in future. It might have been more productive to discuss that.
I like that quote about the fingers viraniniQuite right Doug and Icaros, thank you.
The OP was about reflecting on one's own behavior in a light-hearted way--with the intention of learning more about what we may be doing unconsciously to create problems for others. Victoria_Peregrina answered in exactly this spirit.
Those who are inclined to argue about right and wrong are missing the point entirely--and perhaps also the opportunity to explore their own foibles. (There is an old expression that when you point the finger at someone, there are always 3 fingers pointing back in your direction...something to think about...)
If you want to argue about the merits of what others may or may not have done, that's your choice, but I'd respectfully ask that you please consider taking that discussion elsewhere. It's not what this thread is about.
Found a good video demonstrating that step. SY
I went looking for the source and it is apparently from Louis Nizer, a british-born US trial lawer; here's the correct quote:I like that quote about the fingers viranani
Just demonstrated this on the husband! Definitely 3 fingers , not sure about the thumb though! A great quote however. I suppose it's a variation on judge not and you shall not be judged. I will remember this one the next time I am scolding the cat!! Thank you and best wishes annetteI went looking for the source and it is apparently from Louis Nizer, a british-born US trial lawer; here's the correct quote:
"When a man points a finger at someone else, he should remember that four of his fingers are pointing at himself."
He may have gotten it from elsewhere; I had been told it's a First Nations saying, but don't know from which tribe.
We forgive you @Viranani .(Sorry mods, totally off topic for the third time (at least) in this thread. Are you annoyed yet?)
Just done, Sheffield James...thanks for the good suggestion!Many thanks for this, SY (and Meri, too). Do you think it would be possible to include this is another more general thread - eg., the resources section - which will read by lots of people who are preparing for their caminos? Not everyone will read this particular thread and so may miss out on such a great bit of helpful advice.
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