We just need to ignore that curtain of superficiality we sometimes live in, and dig a bit deeper......
Funny example.
I flew back overnight from Bangkok last night.
Economy (no air miles upgrade this time)
9 hours, arriving at 6 am.
I had a full day of work to do today and desperately wanted to get at least 3-4 hours sleep.
I was right at the back of the plane, in a middle row of three.
As we settled in the middle seat was empty.
I remarked to the passenger across the empty seat, on the other aisle seat.......
We might be lucky and have an empty seat here!
Fat chance he said.........
One of the last passengers to arrive was 'Frank'
He was huge, in a t shirt and shorts.
He slumped down in the middle seat, 'spilling over the arm rests'
G Day mate, says Frank.
My first time out of F ing Australia.
F ing hate these planes!
Can't sleep on them.
I'll just watch movies and drink F ing beer all night!
I'll just need to get out every couple of hours for a Pee.........
Great............
By the time we had taken off Frank and I were buddies, and I knew all about his trip, his job, his car, his football team.
Whilst I was desperate for sleep, there was no point in being upset about the situation.
I would just 'nap' when I could.
Of course Frank was so big, every time he moved to get his beer, grab some snacks, change the channel scratch his nose........I was woken up with a dig in the ribs.
It wasn't Frank's fault. He was a big guy, not used to long flights, and drinking beer and watching Movies was his way of coping with it.
After each trip to the galley for a Pee and more Beer, Frank would dump some snacks on my tray table.
Here you go 'Bro'
I think I got 2-3 hours napping.
And an extra hour when I got home.
And I got my work done.
And hey..........I got to meet my new 'bro' Frank too..........
Seems we have a similar taste in movies
Truth be known, I would 'not' have reacted to the situation like that prior to my first Camino.......