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Nancy Frey in ´Pilgrim Stories´ doesn´t mention it, and I haven´t seen any other mention of it anywhere else so I suspect it is a fairly recent phenomenon, at least as a popular motivation.Been some discussion of the 2023 Danish film "Camino" recently. I haven't seen it but it seems to share at least one plotline with "Saint Jacques...La Mecque": characters walking a Camino reluctantly as the result of the dying wish of a relative. A similar motive for the lead character in "The Way". Interesting to see the same trope recurring in several popular fiction films set on the Caminos. I have met a few people and read posts by many more in recent years who have walked or are planning to walk as a memorial to a friend or relative. Often directly inspired by watching "The Way". I was not aware of that as a popular motivation when I first began to walk Caminos. Has it always been the case - even before these movies - and I was simply not aware of it at the time?
I bought it on Amazon prime video.Now, I cannot participate - haven´t seen it.Live in NOrway and cannot find it anywhere. None of the streaming services we have offer us this movie. Can anyone tell us where to find it??
And others truly don't understand the love.I truly do not understand the animosity some have towards this entertaining film, with its uplifting and redemptive ending, even if it fails to tick all the boxes of authenticity some are looking for.
And WHY do you think Emilio/Marty MADE them unlikeable? (particularly the sad character of Sarah) A clue is from the director himself who says the movie is about Americans "have lost the plot".Yes, I wish so too.
Unfortunately, all of the main characters are so unlikeable - in my opinion - that I just could not become sufficiently interested/invested to care about their transformations.
The film was made entirely on location, although it is true that one scene was filmed ‘off track’. You can be assured that the landscapes and even the interiors are authentic.I plan to watch, The Way, this weekend for my 58th birthday as I plan to Camino on my 60th. I heard the movie was not filmed on location, except for a couple of places. Does this detract from the authenticity of the film?
Yes Sarah IS a nightmare but may I ask if you have any ideas about who Emilio/Marty based her character upon?I absolutely love The Way and have lost myself in it many times. I recognize there are many things to disparage in the movie but it is a movie not real life and I'm ok with how the story unfolds. I love the scenery and the idea of Tom pushing past his comfort zone to do something he never thought possible. I also love the idea that we can get very caught up in work (work harder! work more!) but if we stop for a moment and have an experience, well, that can be everything. Joost is wonderful but Sarah is a nightmare. I tune out when she's on screen. She "wears off quick!"
To be fair, the movie did not inspire my recent Camino. My family watched it before we did the Liechtenstein Trail in 2022 - just 45 miles in 4 days, six of us (husband & four adult kids). I loved the Trail experience so very much that I needed more. It's like that was the appetizer to the Camino which is the main course. Only my daughter Elise chose to join me on the Camino. I've watched The Way many times in the past year dreaming of what is to come when we depart this May.
And now when people ask me what on earth I'm doing next, I have a movie to point to. At least so they can have a sense of it all.
The Tin Man, according to Estevez.Yes Sarah IS a nightmare but may I ask if you have any ideas about who Emilio/Marty based her character upon?
I'm actually agree with some of your critique, but not about the main character, who's internal journey I find totally convincing. Somehow, the film's flaws don't bother me (except perhaps Jack's monologue). And I have to say that, for me, having a drink on arrival takes precedent over laundry.But here's what has made it hard for me to really like this film:
The main character is basically unlikeable
Almost nobody can put on another person's kit, especially footwear, and just walk for a month
The notion of a "Camino Family" is misleading, IMHO. It's hard to walk together for days on end with anyone due to each person's naturally different footspeed coupled with the length of each walking day. It's also naturally difficult to sustain a conversation with a stranger for more than a day or two
The Irishman's introduction is preposterous
The poster seems merely to express a sense of puzzlement. I think you may have inferred that they were making a judgment of people as bad for not liking the film but it wasn’t, I believe, implied.And others truly don't understand the love.
It's totally OK not to understand each other - that's a pretty normal human condition, after all. But where threads go off the rails about this (or anything - from poles to pack transfer to what's a pilgrim and what's a tourist) is when people take that puzzlement and impute that there's something bad about people who have another opinion or experience. There's not.
OMG! Your comments brought me to tears, J.We can only say what we like or don't like and what is meaningful or not on a personal level. It is meaningful to me not because it is a great movie, but because of the emotional moment that occurred when I first watched it. If I had only watched it by myself, I might have forgotten it by now, but when Phil turned to me with tears in his eyes and asked if I thought we could do a Camino someday, it turned the movie into something important for me.
If it isn't meaningful to others, then its fine because that is their experience. I don't like Pamplona because of a bad experience on my first Camino there, but lots of other people here love Pamplona. I don't like dessert, but other people here love dessert. I think we can all just be ourselves. I can love the movie for my own reasons and other people don't have to love it for their own reasons. (Or they can just be like "meh, it was OK.")
Why fatman?????And "transformations"? there were NONE - sarah kept smoking and said these things never work and fatman went off to buy that new suit and Jack from Ireland just got writers block back
Did we watch the same film, @Camo?And "transformations"? there were NONE - sarah kept smoking and said these things never work and fatman went off to buy that new suit and Jack from Ireland just got writers block back.
Sarah started it with her tirade to Tom calling him Boomer accusing him of all manner of illegal acts for which he was now "doing penance". By then Tom and Joost had an "understanding" and as Joost kept referring to his fat problem Tom called him fatman AND it was taken as a "term of endearment" as such things happen between blokes.Why fatman?????His name is Joost.
Not that there'd be anything wrong with that.Do you think that every time I happen to watch the Sound of Music, I would wear a Dirndl dress and start singing " Edelweiss"?
Tom was a boomer because the scriptwriter wrote it that way. Martin Sheen’s actual age is not relevant.The venom as used by Sarah was totally absent AND Sarah was out by 10 years as Tom was well and truly in the silent generation and HAD THE RIGHT to remain silent, but was denied by all, even the viewers.
Indeed. It needs to be pointed out from time to time that it is just a movie, otherwise we are in danger of losing the plot in this thread.it is just a movie
Blimey, he's even older than my feetHis birthday is August 4, 1940
LOL.Blimey, he's even older than my feet
Just when I was thinking it's time to get out of this thread, this comes along. Hilarious. Thank you @Kathar1na Respect.Yes, Martin Sheen will be 84 this year. And still working as an ophthalmologist with Doctors Without Borders in a remote part of Nigeria! Respect!
Or they poach the plot of I'll Push You and make it a wheelchair pilgrimage. But Tom dies before getting to Santiago - and his old buddies, reunited in grief, fling his ashes in the sea as father and son are reunited in death?Yes, Martin Sheen will be 84 this year. And still working as an ophthalmologist with Doctors Without Borders in a remote part of Nigeria! Respect!
At least if the sequel to The Way is filmed later this year.
A friend (not knowing I was planning to do the Frances for my sixtieth) gave me the film as a Christmas present back in 2003. First time round I was intrigued and greatly moved by it, but since completing that Camino in 2004. I have found myself wanting to occasionally watch it again as the years have gone by (and 3 more Caminos on) especially when trying to explain the 'hard to put into words' magic of the Camino experience to friends or relations (my kids didn't get to see the film with me until I was safely back from that first one!). I am interested however to dispassionately note that every time I re-watch it I find myself - despite myself- very emotional and in tears at some point - and at never the same point! Recently, as I began to concretely plan the Vezeley route to mark my Seventieth birthday this year, the relevant line from the French Gendarme near the beginning of the film leapt completely uninvited into my mind and brought a smile to my face! All my Caminos have been so different from one another, and yet the same...like siblings who each have their own personality and foibles yet which are so obviously related to each other. The film, for me at least, has captured something very genuine about an extraordinary phenomenon that, in my experience has been so very much more multi-faceted and life-enhancing than any film could ever hope to portray. Yet the film captures it enough to still have the ability to move me to tears on the occasions I decide to rewatch it. Will I watch it again before my next Camino? Yes, probably - and probably with friends who want to know why I'm just about to do yet another crazy long distance Camino!! Buen Camino to all, irrespective of whether you like the film or not!I'm a five, my wife is a four. We watched for the first time after making a decision to go. I have watched a few times since( our Camino Frances was seven years ago). While it's not a perfect depiction of the journey, it's close enough that I get nostalgic and a little teary when I see places I recognize ( Orisson for example).
It was a meaningful pilgrimage for us and the movie is a wonderful reminder.
I think we have already established that +/- 10 years don’t matter but just to avoid confusion: The movie The Way, directed by Emilio Estevez and starring Martin Sheen as Tom Avery was filmed in September, October and November 2009, and the first public viewings were in 2010.A friend (not knowing I was planning to do the Frances for my sixtieth) gave me the film as a Christmas present back in 2003. First time round I was intrigued and greatly moved by it, but since completing that Camino in 2004 I have found myself wanting to occasionally watch it again
If you watch it to the end you’ll see how he changes and the fact that they often take the piss out of themselves being American. Sort of the point.Many people have enjoyed the movie, and some have been inspired to do their own Camino. So that’s good.
I wanted to like it, but the two times I have viewed I found it literally unwatchable and could not finish it.
Particularly problematic for me was the arrogant way that Martin Sheen’s character couldn’t be bothered to learn even a few words of French or Spanish. The ‘Ugly American’ stereotype.
@Kathar1na I think you underestimate the mystical qualities of the movie which transcend ordinary notions of time and space. In 2016 in Melide I met a devotee of the film who told me I should appreciate it more because without the movie I would never have heard of the Camino. Up until then I was under the mistaken impression that I had first heard and read about the Camino Frances in 1985 and first walked it in 1990. Twenty years before the release date. Receiving a copy of the movie in 2003 is childsplay compared to that....I think we have already established that +/- 10 years don’t matter but just to avoid confusion: The movie The Way, directed by Emilio Estevez and starring Martin Sheen as Tom Avery was filmed in September, October and November 2009, and the first public viewings were in 2010.
What did you say in response?In 2016 in Melide I met a devotee of the film who told me I should appreciate it more because without the movie I would never have heard of the Camino
I pointed out that I had walked a Camino years before the film came out and asked how a 2010 film could have inspired a 1990 Camino. He simply walked away without answering. He had also included the dozen or more pilgrims in sight in his assumption that we all only learned of the Camino because of the movie though I have no reason to believe he had asked any of them their back stories either. He was very excitable and not completely rational. I think he simply assumed that everyone must have had the same experience as himself. A not uncommon delusion that one is the centre of the world and the model for everyone else!What did you say in response?
(Or did you just look at them as though they had two heads?)
I first learned about the Camino while listening to a Saturday morning Canadian Broadcasting Corporation (CBC) radio show called The Radio Show. Over a series of weeks, the host, Jack Farr, interviewed a fellow from Canada who was walking the Way. This was back in the late 1980s. I was so struck by what I heard that I took some notes - - which I didn't come across again until after I had walked the VdlP in 2008. So much fun to look back on those notes! All that said, I really don't care for the movie The Way. Much prefer Seven Ways to Santiago which is more of a documentary, with quite a mixture of walkers with a variety of backgrounds and reasons for walking.I could have written this.
For me, at most the movie brings an indifferent shrug. But then I walked the Camino before seeing it, so there's none of the fervor that comes with gratitude.
It would be interesting to know if the haters or indifferent folks (1s, 2s, 3s) mostly learned of the Camino some other way.
Sorry, can’t be bothered. There are so many good movies to watch.If you watch it to the end you’ll see how he changes and the fact that they often take the piss out of themselves being American. Sort of the point.
The daughter to Martin is "Doreen" in The Way. Now when I watch the movie the character Tom has a daughter because I'm easily confused.Indeed. It needs to be pointed out from time to time that it is just a movie, otherwise we are in danger of losing the plot in this thread.
Tom Avery is not a real person. He is a fictive person in a movie. He is an ophthalmologist. He has one son who died. We don’t know whether he has any other children (or do we?). We don’t know his birthday. Not the day, not the month, not the year. (Or do we?)
Martin Sheen is a real person. He is an actor. He has three sons and a daughter. All of them alive. His birthday is August 3, 1940.
Interesting. I know Laurie Dennett was interviewed on Canadian radio when she was walking her first Camino, I think around 1986, raising money for MS (as described in her book A Hug for the Apostle). I didn't know a fellow had done so as well.I first learned about the Camino while listening to a Saturday morning Canadian Broadcasting Corporation (CBC) radio show called The Radio Show. Over a series of weeks, the host, Jack Farr, interviewed a fellow from Canada who was walking the Way. This was back in the late 1980s. I was so struck by what I heard that I took some notes - - which I didn't come across again until after I had walked the VdlP in 2008. So much fun to look back on those notes! All that said, I really don't care for the movie The Way. Much prefer Seven Ways to Santiago which is more of a documentary, with quite a mixture of walkers with a variety of backgrounds and reasons for walking.
Although I didn't know about the Camino way back in the 80s or 90s, it wasn't the movie, "The Way" that led me to it. It was a presentation by another student in a Spanish class that made me aware. But who knows, maybe the movie inspired him. So perhaps I was inspired by "The Way" indirectly.In 2016 in Melide I met a devotee of the film who told me I should appreciate it more because without the movie I would never have heard of the Camino.
Beautiful.On our first camino, and many after that, we always seem to meet people of all ages with stories that can only be described as life imitating art. The characters in The Way came to life for us. One lady whom we kept walking with and bumping into seemed so odd, always dressed in the same black outfit. She was a strikingly lovely lady around 50 years old. She never said anything...just walked.
One morning, it was raining and we slipped into a cafe. She was there and we asked if we could sit with her. We started talking and finally she opened up to us. I am leaving out a few details in case someone might recognize her.
She and her younger brother were raised by a very abusive father who beat them regularly. At the age of 16, she ran away from home and became a prostitute in another European country. Over a period of years, she made quite a bit of money. She later returned to her native country, opened a business, married a wonderful man and had four kids.
She said she was walking the camino for atonement, which is why she was wearing black. I commented that it seemed she had righted herself. What did she have to atone for? She said she had abandoned her younger brother who later committed suicide. Her conscience could not reconcile this and she was hoping the camino would purify her conscience.
She went on to Finisterre, took off the black clothing, burned it and then put on white robe, which she wore for her walk back to Santiago.
I still haven't seen 'The Way', but if you want to show something to people to capture why you're going: For me, this is the very essence of the CaminoAnd now when people ask me what on earth I'm doing next, I have a movie to point to. At least so they can have a sense of it all.
Ok, I can't comment on how it stacks up to the actual PCT, but I will say that for me 'Wild' was pivotal in walking the Camino. It got me started thinking about walking again. The PCT went on my bucket list ( it's still there). And, years later, when I came across Nadine's YouTube's on the Camino last year it made me realize that perhaps it was possible to walk without carrying my own version of 'Monster'. I walked the Inglés three months later, the Primitivo three months after that, & I've since started walking the Jakobsweg here in Germany.Anyone want to comment on how the movie Wild stacks up to walking the actual PCT?
I'm always amazed how many people don't credit Jack Hitt for the inspiration behind "The Way".
The movie the Way lists the book written by author Jack Hitt's "Off The Road - A Modern Day Walk Down the Pilgrim's Route into Spain" is what it's based on. [...] The Way is my favorite Camino movie, and I thought I remembered reading Jack Hitt's book. I ordered it, started reading it, and I realized I hadn't read it. It's great and it's fantastic to read some of the characters in various forms and their words from the book show up in Emilo Estevez's movie.
This is a valuable reality check. The Way looms large on this forum - for some but not all. Many of us came to the Camino long before watching it.The movie "The Way" looms huge on this forum but it is just a minor factor in making the Camino de Santiago known to the hundreds of thousands who walk every year and who have walked since the 1950s when the Camino de Santiago started its new life.
Absoutely. The notion of pilgrimage is deeply woven into western culture. If anything, it is woven even deeper into the culture of Protestant countries than Roman Catholic countries: numerous poets of the Reformation reference it e.g. Raleigh, Campion, Spencer and Bunyan. Bunyan, of course, wrote one of the greatest affirmations of Christian faith ´A Pilgrim´s Progress ´as well as our school hymn: ´Who would true valour see, let him come hither´. One of the first English speaking settlements in North America (and the most celebrated) was a community of Puritans who called themselves ´The Pilgrim Fathers´. Growing up in England, there were paths in every village called ´The Pilgrim´s Way´, we studied Chaucer´s ´Canterbury Tales´ and if we were Welsh (and sometimes even if we weren´t) we´d sing the great Cwm Rhondda ´Guide me O thou great Jehovah, Pilgrim through this barren land´, a hymn to send shivers up your spine even to think of it.This is a valuable reality check. The Way looms large on this forum - for some but not all. Many of us came to the Camino long before watching it.
And if the poll is any indication, a minority of about 17% here either dislike or are indifferent to it.
@Peterexpatkiwi thank you. This short video is perfect.I still haven't seen 'The Way', but if you want to show something to people to capture why you're going: For me, this is the very essence of the Camino
Really lovely video!! Really connected with that. Nice music too, and lovely narration. Thanks for sharing @Peterexpatkiwi. Captures it very simplistically and to a tee!@Peterexpatkiwi thank you. This short video is perfect.
True but paradoxically the Protestant use of pilgrimage has been almost entirely metaphorical rather than literal. The actual practice of pilgrimage was actively suppressed by many Protestant churches. Too closely allied to the cult of the saints and relics and other suspect thinking! For example it is only a few years since the Church of Scotland officially abandoned its long-defunct official policy of opposing pilgrimage as a superstitious practice and actively embraced it.Absoutely. The notion of pilgrimage is deeply woven into western culture. If anything, it is woven even deeper into the culture of Protestant countries than Roman Catholic countries:
I love this video too, and often point people towards it!I still haven't seen 'The Way', but if you want to show something to people to capture why you're going: For me, this is the very essence of the Camino
I look forward to taking a look. I have seen a couple of other of Nadine's walks and she has a very nice "style".I love this video too, and often point people towards it!
For the benefit of those who were initially as puzzled as I was: I googled.The daughter to Martin is "Doreen" in The Way. Now when I watch the movie the character Tom has a daughter because I'm easily confused.
Thank you for that. I'm not a movie buff but I do love movies, The Way in particular.For the benefit of those who were initially as puzzled as I was: I googled.
I now know that Doreen who is the secretary of Tom Avery is also Renée Estevez who is the daughter of Martin Sheen.
I am obviously not a movie buff and I have obviously not seen The Way often enough.
Another of Martin's three sons Ramon is in an uncredited scene walking behind his father during the ending scene of the movie where Martin is walking in the market with the scarf.Thank you for that. I'm not a movie buff but I do love movies, The Way in particular.
I have seen the movie dozens of times but I just never get enough of it. I did see some interviews with Martin, and found out I like his personality and I didn't know I would. Renee might have been mentioned in some interviews with Martin or his son or both.
WOW thank you! I'll have to see that! Now I have to see it again right away.Another of Martin's three sons Ramon is in an uncredited scene walking behind his father during the ending scene of the movie where Martin is walking in the market with the scarf.
I loved the movie and have seen it 3-4 times in 9 years and own a copy. If I watched it too often I think it would probably lose some of its appeal for me; becoming more ho-hum for me; a reason I rarely watch it.I'm not a movie buff but I do love movies, The Way in particular.
I have seen the movie dozens of times but I just never get enough of it.
We also have the sound track and Phil often listens to it in the mornings when he is puttering around the house. (Also listens to Gregorian chanting soundtrack.) Makes the Camino feel closer when we are home.I loved the movie and have seen it 3-4 times in 9 years and own a copy. If I watched it too often I think it would probably lose some of its appeal for me; becoming more ho-hum for me; a reason I rarely watch it.
I always considered this a perfect introduction to the camino for those who are on the fence and need some extra motivation. It's brief, fun to watch, touches on so many aspects of the camino but never gets bogged down in detail.I love this video too, and often point people towards it!
I understand why the movies about the Camino depict the "Camino family" shtick. It's because it's needed in order to have a plot with multiple main characters. Unfortunately some first time pilgrims feel that if they don't do the Camino family thing they're missing out somehow. I've even met pilgrims who said they feel pressured to find one. How sad.It may not be the director's principal message but that formation of a "Camino family" (dreadful phrase!) is a key feature in SJLM too. The various characters and sub-plots eventually interacting and becoming entangled.
I also understand that Taylor Estevez who is Martin Sheen's grandson is in the movie but we don't see him. The scene is explained in an interview here. Search for the word "morgue".Another of Martin's three sons Ramon is in an uncredited scene walking behind his father during the ending scene of the movie where Martin is walking in the market with the scarf.
But it is also a very real thing for many on the Camino, not just a film plot. Of course, it won't turn out that way for everyone, and a film is just a film and expectations should never be set on such, that cannot be blamed on a film or other people's experiences.I understand why the movies about the Camino depict the "Camino family" shtick. It's because it's needed in order to have a plot with multiple main characters.
Unfortunately some first time pilgrims feel that if they don't do the Camino family thing they're missing out somehow. I've even met pilgrims who said they feel pressured to find one. How sad.
There wasn't really any popular concept of a 'Camino family' when I walked my first Camino. Probably because pilgrims were too thin on the ground. I think most of us who arrived solo then expected to stay that way for the duration with just occasional interactions with others. As someone who values solitude I've never really warmed to the concept. Perhaps part of why the movie does not particularly appeal to me - not how I see or experience the Caminos for myself.But it is also a very real thing for many on the Camino, not just a film plot
FWIW, I believe that the term "Camino family" has been adapted, or adopted, from "trail family", which comes from the long-distance hiking subculture on the long-distance trails in the USA.concept of a 'Camino family'
Was it just me, or did anyone else think it was a little similar to The Wizard of Oz?
So.... all we need to do now is watch it with Pink Floyd's "Dark Side of the Moon" for a soundtrack and the circle would be complete, no?!Not just you. Emilio Estevez has said a number of times that the film is deliberately modelled on 'The Wizard of Oz'.
Another comment I did not getall we need to do now is watch it with Pink Floyd's "Dark Side of the Moon" for a soundtrack and the circle would be complete, no?!
what is the "braking point" so to speak to move it to 8.3?An 8.25 for me!
Thank you for that!I also understand that Taylor Estevez who is Martin Sheen's grandson is in the movie but we don't see him. The scene is explained in an interview here. Search for the word "morgue".
It probably involves a glass.what is the "braking point" so to speak to move it to 8.3?
I think what interests me more is the concept itself rather than the terminology. Where has the idea of walking the Camino in spontaneously created and transitory friendship groups come from? Rather than walking solo or with existing friends or family? And why has it grown so strong in the popular understanding of a Camino that some people now assume it is the norm and fear exclusion from a 'Camino family' or alternatively feel pressure to join one?FWIW, I believe that the term "Camino family" has been adapted, or adopted, from "trail family", which comes from the long-distance hiking subculture on the long-distance trails in the USA.
Of course I can unquestionably draw a parallel between Pilgrims and "The Way" vs ACW Re-enactors\Living Historians and "Gettysburg".... If anything, both are known as "The Movie" (well... DA Movie in latterIndeed. It needs to be pointed out from time to time that it is just a movie, otherwise we are in danger of losing the plot in this thread.
Tom Avery is not a real person. He is a fictive person in a movie. He is an ophthalmologist. He has one son who died. We don’t know whether he has any other children (or do we?). We don’t know his birthday. Not the day, not the month, not the year. (Or do we?)
Martin Sheen is a real person. He is an actor. He has three sons and a daughter. All of them alive. His birthday is August 3, 1940.
I'm sorry... I just dont see where are you going with this....Sarah started it with her tirade to Tom calling him Boomer accusing him of all manner of illegal acts for which he was now "doing penance". By then Tom and Joost had an "understanding" and as Joost kept referring to his fat problem Tom called him fatman AND it was taken as a "term of endearment" as such things happen between blokes.
The venom as used by Sarah was totally absent AND Sarah was out by 10 years as Tom was well and truly in the silent generation and HAD THE RIGHT to remain silent, but was denied by all, even the viewers.
OH! The stories I (and I am sure others) can tell about "the REAL Sound of Music" where nobody climbed every (or any) mountain to escape the bad Nazis....Do you think that every time I happen to watch the Sound of Music, I would wear a Dirndl dress and start singing " Edelweiss"? Nope.
Are we not in danger of over thinking a phrase which merely refers to some people you meet that you decide you like and choose to walk with if you all so wish? I don't see anything strange about that.I think what interests me more is the concept itself rather than the terminology. Where has the idea of walking the Camino in spontaneously created and transitory friendship groups come from? Rather than walking solo or with existing friends or family? And why has it grown so strong in the popular understanding of a Camino that some people now assume it is the norm and fear exclusion from a 'Camino family' or alternatively feel pressure to join one?
Yeah... I think you re not allowed to go on your 2nd Camino until The Sequel comes outI'm returning in May and now I'm getting '' you've already done that why again''
When does the Sequel come out? We may have to watch a rerun or I get a new Wife.
Agree but I can see why people find nauseating, and some folks seem to think that it is something they need to aspire to and not having a family somehow detracts from the experience. Maybe not many, but some! I have only heard the phrase on here tbh, not on the Camino!!!!Are we not in danger of over thinking a phrase which merely refers to some people you meet that you decide you like and choose to walk with if you all so wish? I don't see anything strange about that.
People's preconceived expectations in relation to this is a personal issue. Would it be any better if we swapped "Camino family" for "Some people I met"? It's just a phrase.
@Bad Pilgrim - but perhaps you will "nevermind" what the people say and sit down and watch it and make your own conclusion?
I would first politely ask you if YOU have worked out why you are wanting to do it again. You don't have to give her the same answer but it seems you should work that out first before you take on the wifeI enjoyed the Movie. We watched it about this time last year after someone mentioned it on this forum . I already had my plans in place for my first Camino , flights booked etc, for May. My Wife who has little interest in walking or any form of fitness for that matter was totally against me going. ''Why are you going solo'' Why do you want to walk for two weeks'' and the like. WE watched the film together and at the end she turned to me and said '' I get it now'' so sort of a thumbs up.
I'm returning in May and now I'm getting '' you've already done that why again''
When does the Sequel come out? We may have to watch a rerun or I get a new Wife.
That is funny. But to be fair that is not what you have been reading - unless you have been reading different threads than I have.Yeah, but the past ten years I have been reading things like: "When Joost chased the pig down the hills to El Acebo was such an empowering scene" or "When Sarah played the accordion at Cruz de Ferro to face her traumas was such a life-changing moment for me" or "When Tom clog danced with the old lady at the bar in Bizkarreta I knew I had to walk the Camino" and I'm like .......................................................
Can't believe theres a Camino film I've not heard of! Will be looking this up this weekend!Another camino film, which I have rewatched more often, is the 'semi-documentary' 'Within the Way Without' (aka 'Tres en el Camino').
That makes perfect sense to me @lovelyshell , and I suspect many people have had the same experience. Just because you like or even love a film - and are perhaps even inspired by it - doesn't mean you can't distinguish between fiction and reality. I had walked the Frances twice before I watched the film, so it did not factor into my motivation or inspiration for walking. And later, when I watched it, I enjoyed it - but it did not have any impact on or relevance to my later caminos. But I still enjoyed this fictional story and would not be averse to watching it again one day and/or a sequel if it eventuates.I loved the movie and watched before my Camino. I didn’t expect my Camino to be like the movie, and nothing about my Camino reminded me of the movie.
What a beautiful and inspiring story - thank you for sharing. I wish you the best for your future CaminosI first watched this movie sometime after it’s release without knowing the spark it lit would have a profound outcome on my life. I first heard about the Camino in high school during a course on religious history (1975). However, it was the film that brought the idea of a pilgrimage into focus. I found the movie inspiring, and the portrayal of a grieving father on his quest compelling. Then in 2013 I was diagnosed with cancer and the surgery to remove it was extremely complicated and potentially lethal. I was told that meditation would help me remain calm and centered while waiting a month for the surgery. They suggested I envision my future in one year, ten years, twenty years etc. I began seeing myself walking the Camino in one year, walking again in ten years with my soon to be born grandson, and in twenty years with any future grandchildren. I survived the surgery and rising from the bed for the first time asked my daughter for a hand to “walk the Camino” to the bathroom. I explained my vision and friends and family quickly got onboard, each helping me “walk the Camino”. Every day I was able to walk just a bit further, to the front door, down the drive way, across the street, and around the block. Three months later I was in SJPP beginning a journey of 500 miles. That first Camino grounded me for what was to come. For nearly eight more years I fought to survive and overcome severe and debilitating illness. Yet, through it all, I still focused on my vision of walking the Camino with my grandson. Last May 2023 we found ourselves in SJPP in the very same Albergue I began in 10 years previous. The vision became reality. Now my 3 year old grandson is begging to walk the Camino. I smile as the elder grandson assures him that when he is 10 years old we will take him too. It was the movie that inspired me to first walk, and once you walk….well, you all know that leads to so much more. The movie is just a story, a story that lit a spark. I am grateful that Emilio and his father are storytellers who wove a story about one man’s heartbreak and transformation on the Camino, attempted to capture just a bit of the possibilities and feel of the walk, actually filmed it on one of the many routes, and then shared it with us. View attachment 164271
I, too, was unaware of this film so have googled and found this forum link with 14 comments. It sounds interesting, but being it's so old I'm not sure I can see it.Can't believe theres a Camino film I've not heard of! Will be looking this up this weekend!
I've just finished reading the Jack Hitt book. There are a couple of incidents and conversations which made it into the film in amended form but I didn't see very much overlap between the book and the movie. Although there was a lot in the book that was very familiar to me I found the crowds, the massive bed race and almost refugee-camp atmosphere in Galicia that Hitt describes towards the end totally different from my own very solitary experience just three years earlier. But the book is describing a journey during the remarkable Holy Year in 1993 when numbers were 20x greater than in 1990 and 10x greater than in 1992! Back when there were real Holy Years not like the pale wishy-washy imitations you get these days....I do think that the script for The Way has a lot more to do with Jack Hitt's book than with the Wizard of Oz.
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