This is turning out to be a very interesting post, with really intersting contributions from everyone.
I like controversy, and the juxtaposition between Rebekkah's practical/economical post and Sil's moral dilemma is delightful. So I'd like to comment on each.
Rebekah writes:
Sadly, as is often the case with publicly funded charity programs, there is a class of people who, even though they often have more than enough already, adore nothing more than getting something for nothing. They may spend hundreds on the latest high-tech hiking gear, GPS, MP3 and PPod doodads, but there´s no way they´ll spend more than 5 or 6 or 8 Euros for a bed. And if the albergue is less than sanitary, or the hospitalero was less than polite and cheerful, or if there aren´t enough outlets to recharge all their doodads (for no extra fee) they leave nothing at all, saying "it´s not worth it. The place is a dump."
These it would seem are the "Glastonbury Pilgrims" described so well by Johnie earlier. They may get a Compostela but they sure so miss the point!
Rebekah's comments about cheapskate pilgrims put me in mind of Fernanda on the Camino Portuguese. I haven't yet had the pleasure of visiting Moratinos and hope to be able to rectify this this year, although as a “MotorPilgrim” on the way to Muxia (or Ourense, I haven’t yet decided) I won’t be expecting accommodation! Neither have I met Rebekah, but from her obvious involvement in the Camino, pilgrims of all shapes, sizes, and pockets, deep or otherwise it is clear that she has devoted her life to helping others by opening her home, relinquishing her privacy, and sharing her time and her heart.
Fernanda of Lugar do Coto between Barcelos and Ponte do Lima is also just such a person. She and Jacinto and their delightful little daughter open their home to pilgrims 24/7/365. Not only that but every exhausted person who climbs her steps is received as she received the first: as though they are the only pilgrim in the world! She is simply one of the most extraordinary persons I have ever met. And she has never walked the Camino! She simply gave a Samaritan's home one day to an exhausted Scottish woman who, astonished at the hospitality, wrote to
John Brierley to tell him about it. A Camino Portuguese Legend was born.
Now Fernanda also relies on donations. Your stay will be in a bed, with sheets; a couple will be given a room to themselves. Fernanda is nothing if not a romantic. You will receive lunch, dinner with home made wine, breakfast and all the TLC in the world.
But even Fernanda suffers from the Selfish and Self-Centred "I am a pilgrim therefore you owe me" syndrome that obviously plagues Rebekah at the Peaceable Kingdom. Many will leave less than they would have paid for a night's accommodation at a Youth Hostel; some will leave less than they will pay for breakfast later that day. Some, nothing at all. For those who pay fairly (and I think 20 euros at the very least is fair for room and three meals), Fernanda takes a small portion and puts the rest in a pot: "For those who can't pay."
This is the true Camino spirit: the unsung hospitaleras/hospitaleros like Fernanda and Rebekah! These are the ones who truly “personify” the image of “Pilgrim” to me. (Not me, Sil...not by any means. I'm just a writer with an overdeveloped sense of Camino research who limps along the Camino every couple of years or so, and writes books to stir people up about the Camino and Complacency!)
Now to Sil's moral dilemma. She writes:
Quote: “If pilgrimage is a journey to a sacred or holy place and one walks from Moissac to St. Jean to Pamplona, what is the goal of the pilgrimage? Are you a still a pilgrim to St James if you have no intention of reaching Santiago?”
and
You and a friend are walking from St Jean to Santiago. You meet up with this couple on day one and become friends.
They will be going home from Carrion de los Condes.
You arrive in Boadilla and queue up outside the albergue. They are in front of you.
The hospitalera announces that there are only two beds left.
Should they take the beds?
If they do, will you still be friends!?
From a philosopher’s point of you, this is truly a great conundrum. To the first, in my defense (hypothetically) I did omit that I have walked from Le Puy to Moissac in one go, and am thinking really about “joining up the dots” of shoe leather to St. James by walking from Moissac to Pamplona, (or Somport) from whence I began, twice. It’s all a bit silly really. Like the great question which was rarely asked in 1999 which was “Where did you start from?” The last 100 klms can be the hardest and for a variety of reasons, not least of which is arrival!
If “The Way is the Destination”, the Goal of the Camino is the walking and one hopes, the spiritual insights gained therby. Unless, of course, the Compostela is the only reason for making the “Pilgrimage” in the first place.
I’ve got three – so what!
As to the Moral Dilemma: let’s assume that all four of you can afford to stay somewhere else, or that the next refugio is within reasonable distance. Maybe you should leave not two but four places to those behind you who are really in need of a “Refuge”, and carry on enriching your friendship!
Oh, by the Way: In Spain today it is a very important holiday:
El Dia de Los Reyes Magos: The Day of the Three Kings. So
Feliz Dia de Los Reyes a todos!
Tracy Saunders
http://www.pilgrimagetoheresy.blogspot.com
(which is curently moving up to the 10th century!)