rector -
I am genuinely attempting to be helpful though it may not seem so.
The place that you seek has no guideposts, nor "bold" arrows on the Camino and no "X marks the spot". It does not exist at any one place(s).
It lies, rather, at the intersection of an open heart, still and receptive mind plus all your life experience up to the point that the experience that you seek happens. Things as subtle (and perceived unimportant) as the angle of the sunlight, historical setting, and current precipitation are outside of you but - - they may matter.
The tradition of the Tao informs us that "When the student is ready, the master appears."
The Christian Master tells us that "Seek and you shall find." (though there is some exegetical debate as to whether "seek" means "actively search" or just "be open to".) Perhaps try to compromise between the two sources of advice.
I am no mystic but, I would counsel that you do not go "looking for it". If you are meant to find it, it will find you first....when you least expect it. That was my experience and that of others with whom I met and discussed the topic (ala alexwalker's proposal ). There are no guarantees, however.
However, after dinner and over a glass or two of wine in an albergue, it can be a very good, private thing to share in a small group. IMHO.
Perhaps you have heard of Wendell Berry, an American farmer/philosopher/poet/essayist. My opinion is that he has it pretty much right - - I have to paraphrase owing to lack of time to research a perfect citation. He said something to the effect that "there is no such thing as an unholy place unless we have made it so".
Buen Camino,
B