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Hi all!
I’m currently on the Camino del Norte, it’s my first time doing a Camino. I understand from looking through the forum that donations are often discussed but I was still hoping for some opinions. I finished university very recently and for various reasons felt the need to walk the Camino this year. I did my best to save money from wages, selling some belongings, any other possible method. However, I am still walking without much money. I have been staying in municipal albergues where I can, and walk further past and end of a ‘stage’ if need be. I don’t eat out at all, I spend as little as I can on groceries. Basically, I am doing my best to make my money last until Santiago. In some stops the only option for accommodation is a donativo. This is my problem - I give as much as I can. In some places the donation box is away from the registration place, and there is privacy to not compare donations. I have been so grateful for the hospitality I have received - I understand that what I can give mays doesn’t cover costs, I take super short showers, offer help cleaning/cooking etc,do my best to show my gratitude in what ways I can. In some stops, however, they take your name and ID and then say ok now give me the donativo please. It makes me feel so awkward. Once, there was no problem. But other times, they will ask something along the lines of ‘is that it?’ or I can tell that they are frustrated with me, and it’s a little silly maybe but almost ignoring me in comparison to other pilgrims. Sometimes I feel pressured and give more than I can afford. I feel guilty in these situations and I wonder if I am in the wrong. I am considering buying a cheap mat in the next bigger city and sleeping out, because I have around 2 more weeks till Santiago but not very much money left. Wondering what other people’s opinions are. Thanks!
Hi all!
I’m currently on the Camino del Norte, it’s my first time doing a Camino. I understand from looking through the forum that donations are often discussed but I was still hoping for some opinions. I finished university very recently and for various reasons felt the need to walk the Camino this year. I did my best to save money from wages, selling some belongings, any other possible method. However, I am still walking without much money. I have been staying in municipal albergues where I can, and walk further past and end of a ‘stage’ if need be. I don’t eat out at all, I spend as little as I can on groceries. Basically, I am doing my best to make my money last until Santiago. In some stops the only option for accommodation is a donativo. This is my problem - I give as much as I can. In some places the donation box is away from the registration place, and there is privacy to not compare donations. I have been so grateful for the hospitality I have received - I understand that what I can give mays doesn’t cover costs, I take super short showers, offer help cleaning/cooking etc,do my best to show my gratitude in what ways I can. In some stops, however, they take your name and ID and then say ok now give me the donativo please. It makes me feel so awkward. Once, there was no problem. But other times, they will ask something along the lines of ‘is that it?’ or I can tell that they are frustrated with me, and it’s a little silly maybe but almost ignoring me in comparison to other pilgrims. Sometimes I feel pressured and give more than I can afford. I feel guilty in these situations and I wonder if I am in the wrong. I am considering buying a cheap mat in the next bigger city and sleeping out, because I have around 2 more weeks till Santiago but not very much money left. Wondering what other people’s opinions are. Thanks!
I take super short showers, offer help cleaning/cooking etc,do my best to show my gratitude in what ways I can.
In some stops, however, they take your name and ID and then say ok now give me the donativo please. It makes me feel so awkward. Once, there was no problem. But other times, they will ask something along the lines of ‘is that it?’ or I can tell that they are frustrated with me
t shouldn't be that way. Either it is a donativo, or not.
That was my feeling as well ; ) And certainly had been my experience on all other caminos. However donativos on the Norte have a very odd notion about what constitutes a donation. On the Norte a donation means - a minimum of 10 euro. Does that make sense? - no. But was explained to me by an especially unwelcoming hospitalero at a donativo and others in line who were equally confused by the pressure each pilgrim faced when putting bills in the box.
The Camino often teaches us lessons that we need to learn in life. Could it be that you need to stop letting other people make you feel uncomfortable. It sounds like you are doing the right thing donating what you can, that is the point of a donation. Those can give more can supplement those that have less. Try to be tougher & not to let what others think make you feel bad - (easier said than done I know ! ) most pilgrims can afford to supplement others who can’t give much. I’m sure one day you can help others in your situation. Enjoy your Camino and don’t let others ignorance ruin your experience!Hi all!
I’m currently on the Camino del Norte, it’s my first time doing a Camino. I understand from looking through the forum that donations are often discussed but I was still hoping for some opinions. I finished university very recently and for various reasons felt the need to walk the Camino this year. I did my best to save money from wages, selling some belongings, any other possible method. However, I am still walking without much money. I have been staying in municipal albergues where I can, and walk further past and end of a ‘stage’ if need be. I don’t eat out at all, I spend as little as I can on groceries. Basically, I am doing my best to make my money last until Santiago. In some stops the only option for accommodation is a donativo. This is my problem - I give as much as I can. In some places the donation box is away from the registration place, and there is privacy to not compare donations. I have been so grateful for the hospitality I have received - I understand that what I can give mays doesn’t cover costs, I take super short showers, offer help cleaning/cooking etc,do my best to show my gratitude in what ways I can. In some stops, however, they take your name and ID and then say ok now give me the donativo please. It makes me feel so awkward. Once, there was no problem. But other times, they will ask something along the lines of ‘is that it?’ or I can tell that they are frustrated with me, and it’s a little silly maybe but almost ignoring me in comparison to other pilgrims. Sometimes I feel pressured and give more than I can afford. I feel guilty in these situations and I wonder if I am in the wrong. I am considering buying a cheap mat in the next bigger city and sleeping out, because I have around 2 more weeks till Santiago but not very much money left. Wondering what other people’s opinions are. Thanks!
You ask if you are in the wrong.Hi all!
I’m currently on the Camino del Norte, it’s my first time doing a Camino. I understand from looking through the forum that donations are often discussed but I was still hoping for some opinions. I finished university very recently and for various reasons felt the need to walk the Camino this year. I did my best to save money from wages, selling some belongings, any other possible method. However, I am still walking without much money. I have been staying in municipal albergues where I can, and walk further past and end of a ‘stage’ if need be. I don’t eat out at all, I spend as little as I can on groceries. Basically, I am doing my best to make my money last until Santiago. In some stops the only option for accommodation is a donativo. This is my problem - I give as much as I can. In some places the donation box is away from the registration place, and there is privacy to not compare donations. I have been so grateful for the hospitality I have received - I understand that what I can give mays doesn’t cover costs, I take super short showers, offer help cleaning/cooking etc,do my best to show my gratitude in what ways I can. In some stops, however, they take your name and ID and then say ok now give me the donativo please. It makes me feel so awkward. Once, there was no problem. But other times, they will ask something along the lines of ‘is that it?’ or I can tell that they are frustrated with me, and it’s a little silly maybe but almost ignoring me in comparison to other pilgrims. Sometimes I feel pressured and give more than I can afford. I feel guilty in these situations and I wonder if I am in the wrong. I am considering buying a cheap mat in the next bigger city and sleeping out, because I have around 2 more weeks till Santiago but not very much money left. Wondering what other people’s opinions are. Thanks!
"Opinions of others" is of no importance and varies..Thank you for the responses, they are all very helpful. Am clumsily figuring out how to use this forum so hope people will get notified.
I think it is true that one if the biggest things for me to learn on the way will be to be less sensitive to the opinions of others. Thank you for the reassurance and I will try to strengthen my resolve a little over the next few weeks.
It had already occurred to me in some lovely albergues that one day when I can I would like to return and leave a much bigger donation.
I think that I will try the suggestion of stating my circumstances before paying (if they ask to hand over the donation), I know there’s no need to confess but maybe it will lessen my discomfort.
I’ll try to stay optimistic the next few weeks and make it to Santiago! Thanks again
Before they can ask hand it to them and say something along the lines of 'I can't afford to give much because I'm very low on funds, however I'm very happy to help out with dinner or cleaning'.
How do you mean this? How do more fortunate pilgrims compensate for starting pilgrims? Do they pay more in donativo albergues? This is not my experience. My guideline is that most of the times I pay the price that I pay in ( private) Albergues and more if the services provided are very good. I have the impression that many people act this way. If not I gladly stand to be correctedYou said yourself. Your just out of university. Just beginning your carrier. Look at the long term. Now you can and should spend little to reach Santiago. Later in live you may be fortunate enough to compensatie for the starting pilgrim walking then. Like there are more fortunate pilgrims on the road doing that for you now. That is the whole picture.
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Perhaps we have had different experiences. I do donate more in donativos than I pay in private accommodations. I do this so that the albergue can afford to keep operating when hosting those pilgrims less able to leave a donation. As a hospitalero, I volunteer in only donativos operated by a municipality, a church or an association. Not in private donativos. In the years I have been doing this, I have found that pilgrims experience with the donativo concept also tend to do this. I have been pleasantly surprised on more than one occasion. I have paid for another pilgrim's bed in an albergue that charged a fee when I knew that they were short of cash and had not had a good meal for a couple of days.How do you mean this? How do more fortunate pilgrims compensate for starting pilgrims? Do they pay more in donativo albergues? This is not my experience. My guideline is that most of the times I pay the price that I pay in ( private) Albergues and more if the services provided are very good. I have the impression that many people act this way. If not I gladly stand to be corrected
I'm more generous at Donativos because I'm pretty sure some people take advantage of them. I figure donativos are not much cheaper to run. Paying the private alburge market rate at a donativo won't account for those who either can't afford much like the OP, or those who are slackers. I am fortunate enough to be able to afford to do so.How do you mean this? How do more fortunate pilgrims compensate for starting pilgrims? Do they pay more in donativo albergues? This is not my experience. My guideline is that most of the times I pay the price that I pay in ( private) Albergues and more if the services provided are very good. I have the impression that many people act this way. If not I gladly stand to be corrected
I, too pay more. For much the same reasons as @Philtration and @Phil W . I'm not religious, and I'm very far from well off, let alone rich, but when circumstances allow I like to ' pay it forward ' . Unlike with any other kind of 'charity', if you like, here I can see where it's going, if not directly to whom. It's something that I care enough about to want to support.How do you mean this? How do more fortunate pilgrims compensate for starting pilgrims? Do they pay more in donativo albergues? This is not my experience. My guideline is that most of the times I pay the price that I pay in ( private) Albergues and more if the services provided are very good. I have the impression that many people act this way. If not I gladly stand to be corrected
Thank you for your thoughtful response, you obviously are doing your best given your limited resources. It's unfortunate that you have received less than respectful treatment because of your donations and you should not have to sleep outside! My suggestion is that you be upfront with the albergue owners, tell them about your situation and offer to do extra work. The Norte is more expensive than for example the Francés, I know as I walked it for a second time in 2022. Many donativo albergues on the Norte as well as municipals have closed during the past few years due to young "vacationers" using them in the summer for cheap lodging and leaving next to nothing. The hospitaleros you've encountered may have experienced this too which may partially explain their current attitude.Hi all!
I’m currently on the Camino del Norte, it’s my first time doing a Camino. I understand from looking through the forum that donations are often discussed but I was still hoping for some opinions. I finished university very recently and for various reasons felt the need to walk the Camino this year. I did my best to save money from wages, selling some belongings, any other possible method. However, I am still walking without much money. I have been staying in municipal albergues where I can, and walk further past and end of a ‘stage’ if need be. I don’t eat out at all, I spend as little as I can on groceries. Basically, I am doing my best to make my money last until Santiago. In some stops the only option for accommodation is a donativo. This is my problem - I give as much as I can. In some places the donation box is away from the registration place, and there is privacy to not compare donations. I have been so grateful for the hospitality I have received - I understand that what I can give mays doesn’t cover costs, I take super short showers, offer help cleaning/cooking etc,do my best to show my gratitude in what ways I can. In some stops, however, they take your name and ID and then say ok now give me the donativo please. It makes me feel so awkward. Once, there was no problem. But other times, they will ask something along the lines of ‘is that it?’ or I can tell that they are frustrated with me, and it’s a little silly maybe but almost ignoring me in comparison to other pilgrims. Sometimes I feel pressured and give more than I can afford. I feel guilty in these situations and I wonder if I am in the wrong. I am considering buying a cheap mat in the next bigger city and sleeping out, because I have around 2 more weeks till Santiago but not very much money left. Wondering what other people’s opinions are. Thanks!
I love Granon!There's a box in the albergue in Granon, full of money, with a sign that says "give what you can, take what you need". Donativos are the true Camino.
I am so pleased to hear that that is still the case. I stayed there in early November, 1998, and remember being struck by the generosity of the message. It was something I never saw in any other albergue. IIRC, the albergue was in the church itself, in or near the bell tower. I wonder if that's still the case. Having watched umpteen camino YT videos recently, unfortunately, none of the video-makers chose to stay there!There's a box in the albergue in Granon, full of money, with a sign that says "give what you can, take what you need". Donativos are the true Camino.
A different point of view. I'm not sure a recent university grad should be headed off to Spain for a period of time that they don't have the money to support. If, after spending as minimal amount as possible, one is worried they don't have enough money to last until SdC, then they clearly didn't have enough money to begin with. And as this is not their first camino the costs wouldn't have been a surprise.
Fortunately it's possible to support yourself along the caminos in Spain for for far less money than it takes virtually anywhere else in the world (accommodation in Europe for as little as $10! It's incredible). It's not free however, and pilgrims need to budget accordingly. The cheapest options (ie free) should be reserved for the truly poor who would like to experience pilgrimage. A recent university grad from an English-speaking country likely doesn't fit that criteria.
Just one opionion. Don't hate on me. And no disrepect to the poster - I obviously know nothing of your specific circumstances. My comments are general.
And as this is not their first camino the costs wouldn't have been a surprise.
I’m currently on the Camino del Norte, it’s my first time doing a Camino.
A recent university grad from an English-speaking country likely doesn't fit that criteria.
I do understand your point however I don't really feel that it had a place in this particular discussion. We all have different reasons for walking the Camino and if you read the OP - I'll quote the relevant section below - it's pretty clear that this particular Pilgrim felt called to do so. They also did everything they could to raise the necessary funds and clearly felt when they started they had sufficient. They are not asking for handouts simply for advice on how to handle the deplorable behavior from one or more Hospitalero's in one or more donativos.A different point of view. I'm not sure a recent university grad should be headed off to Spain for a period of time that they don't have the money to support. If, after spending as minimal amount as possible, one is worried they don't have enough money to last until SdC, then they clearly didn't have enough money to begin with. And as this is not their first camino the costs wouldn't have been a surprise.
Fortunately it's possible to support yourself along the caminos in Spain for for far less money than it takes virtually anywhere else in the world (accommodation in Europe for as little as $10! It's incredible). It's not free however, and pilgrims need to budget accordingly. The cheapest options (ie free) should be reserved for the truly poor who would like to experience pilgrimage. A recent university grad from an English-speaking country likely doesn't fit that criteria.
Just one opionion. Don't hate on me. And no disrepect to the poster - I obviously know nothing of your specific circumstances. My comments are general.
I finished university very recently and for various reasons felt the need to walk the Camino this year. I did my best to save money from wages, selling some belongings, any other possible method. However, I am still walking without much money.
When I worked as an hospitalera in Belorado, way back when, I was absurdly grateful if anyone offered to help with cleaning or other albergue tasks. Our donativo box was somewhere off in a corner, and we never looked to see who was donating or who wasn't. I don't recall much warmth from hospitalero/as on the Camino del Norte, whereas I can still remember many of those who worked in the donativos on the CF 25 years ago.
This is the OPs first Camino
On the CF in 2006, I was taken by the decision of a French couple who walked at the same pace, more or less, and stayed at the same albergues, to offer to serve as hospitaleros for the following year. I recommend it, when you have the chance.Thank you for the responses, they are all very helpful. Am clumsily figuring out how to use this forum so hope people will get notified.
I think it is true that one if the biggest things for me to learn on the way will be to be less sensitive to the opinions of others. Thank you for the reassurance and I will try to strengthen my resolve a little over the next few weeks.
It had already occurred to me in some lovely albergues that one day when I can I would like to return and leave a much bigger donation.
I think that I will try the suggestion of stating my circumstances before paying (if they ask to hand over the donation), I know there’s no need to confess but maybe it will lessen my discomfort.
I’ll try to stay optimistic the next few weeks and make it to Santiago! Thanks again
My mistake - I misread and thought the poster had stated this wasn't their first camino. My apologies, I don't have my glasses on.
Really!! I think your comments are rather too specific and pointed at the OP's particular circumstances to be considered 'general', and as a result, they do show disrespect, particularly as it now appears you made some of your judgements based on the OP having previously walked the Camino, which they haven't.Just one opionion. Don't hate on me. And no disrepect to the poster - I obviously know nothing of your specific circumstances. My comments are general.
I see where you are coming from, but I guess my questions were more about the right attitude towards donativos rather than whether or not I should have done the Camino in the first place. Like some people have pointed out, it is the first one for me. I do think the truth is that knowing my limited budget I maybe should have planned more extensively - yes, costs are lower in Spain but for example I was expecting accommodation costs on the range of 10€ a night. So some costs were in fact, a surprise. In several stops, the pilgrim albergues were more in the range of 20€. Some I only found out had closed once I was on the way, and I had to find the next cheapest option. Caving to pressure in some donativos also cost me more than I predicted. It is not always so simple to go a little further for a cheaper bed on the Norte, as a ‘little further’ is often another 10kmA different point of view. I'm not sure a recent university grad should be headed off to Spain for a period of time that they don't have the money to support. If, after spending as minimal amount as possible, one is worried they don't have enough money to last until SdC, then they clearly didn't have enough money to begin with. And as this is not their first camino the costs wouldn't have been a surprise.
Fortunately it's possible to support yourself along the caminos in Spain for for far less money than it takes virtually anywhere else in the world (accommodation in Europe for as little as $10! It's incredible). It's not free however, and pilgrims need to budget accordingly. The cheapest options (ie free) should be reserved for the truly poor who would like to experience pilgrimage. A recent university grad from an English-speaking country likely doesn't fit that criteria.
Just one opionion. Don't hate on me. And no disrepect to the poster - I obviously know nothing of your specific circumstances. My comments are general.
Making progress! Had the pleasure of staying La Casa de Montse near Villaviciosa last night, a small donativo run by Monste herselfOn the CF in 2006, I was taken by the decision of a French couple who walked at the same pace, more or less, and stayed at the same albergues, to offer to serve as hospitaleros for the following year. I recommend it, when you have the chance.
How are you doing?
II am so pleased to hear that that is still the case. I stayed there in early November, 1998, and remember being struck by the generosity of the message. It was something I never saw in any other albergue. IIRC, the albergue was in the church itself, in or near the bell tower. I wonder if that's still the case. Having watched umpteen camino YT videos recently, unfortunately, none of the video-makers chose to stay there!
I try to pay it forward. When I can I leave enough for me and the next person, because in the past someone did that for me. If I stay in a private home (there is a hospitality network on many French Camino routes without much accommodation) then I will ask if I may leave money for the host's favourite charity.How do you mean this? How do more fortunate pilgrims compensate for starting pilgrims? Do they pay more in donativo albergues? This is not my experience. My guideline is that most of the times I pay the price that I pay in ( private) Albergues and more if the services provided are very good. I have the impression that many people act this way. If not I gladly stand to be corrected
Relax. You are doing nothing wrong. Continue in joy.,
I see where you are coming from, but I guess my questions were more about the right attitude towards donativos rather than whether or not I should have done the Camino in the first place. Like some people have pointed out, it is the first one for me. I do think the truth is that knowing my limited budget I maybe should have planned more extensively - yes, costs are lower in Spain but for example I was expecting accommodation costs on the range of 10€ a night. So some costs were in fact, a surprise. In several stops, the pilgrim albergues were more in the range of 20€. Some I only found out had closed once I was on the way, and I had to find the next cheapest option. Caving to pressure in some donativos also cost me more than I predicted. It is not always so simple to go a little further for a cheaper bed on the Norte, as a ‘little further’ is often another 10kmSo maybe I went in a little naively and it has cost me, but I did honestly feel that my limited budget would nevertheless get me to Santiago. Also, I could understand your perspective maybe if I had said that I just wanted to do a long hike and thought the Norte would be a cheap option - but I think there is too much nuance regarding pilgrimage to propose that there is a correct set of circumstances that are appropriate for the Camino.
Either way, thanks for your perspective!
I'm vey new to this forum, and have been checking threads in many different subjects. Sad to say that when subjects touch some nerves, some people can't help themselves....... The cheapest options (ie free) should be reserved for the truly poor who would like to experience pilgrimage. A recent university grad from an English-speaking country likely doesn't fit that criteria.
Just one opionion. Don't hate on me. And no disrepect to the poster - I obviously know nothing of your specific circumstances. My comments are general.
Isn't this just the case!Hi @pilgrimera - I walked my first Camino during second and third year (way over a decade ago) so I very much get where you are coming from. UK student accommodation prices are absurd and even though I had two jobs, saving money is hard when you are first starting out in this world. During that Camino, I definitely gave little in Donativos (as you, as much as possible but surely not as much as some of the older folks did), guarded my Compeed because one of those packets took me two hours of work to save up for and ate very frugally.
What I learned during that time was the importance of the concept "pay it forward" - something the Camino hospitality system is very much based on (from Donativos, to volunteer hospitalieros to people giving you water/fruit during the day). In all those years that followed, I try my hardest to always remember the generosity of random people during times when I didn't have the money / strength / ability to do something and - now that I'm in a very different life position - cover a bit more than my share. Maybe that will also be one of the lessons you take home from the Camino.
It is absolutely fine to be on the receiving end of "pay it forward" - in fact, in your early twenties / fresh out of uni that's very much your prerogative. Contribute what you can now, collect these valuable life experiences and make this concept part of your life.
The Camino would certainly be a lot poorer if only middle-aged and well-to-do people undertook this walk. Enjoy this time and reflect on behaviours of others you find bad. Try to understand where they might come from (this problem seems very specific to the CdN) and do better whenever you are in a comparable situation.
Agreed. I posted the correction for the sake of accuracy, but my comments would be the same regardless.Sorry but it does not make a difference if it is the first or the seventh Camino of the OP.
With what you say, your conscience, etc, you do not have to feel bad.... Its a donativo, and that what it is. I walked the Norte, and at one place, the deposit box at the donativo, (which was see-through) was watched by the hospitaeros. I also stayed at a place during my Frances, where it was totally different and a pleasure to donate more than one can afford, because it just felt right. You have a good heart, dont over-think, and enjoy your trip!!! And give what you can afford - no more!!!Hi all!
I’m currently on the Camino del Norte, it’s my first time doing a Camino. I understand from looking through the forum that donations are often discussed but I was still hoping for some opinions. I finished university very recently and for various reasons felt the need to walk the Camino this year. I did my best to save money from wages, selling some belongings, any other possible method. However, I am still walking without much money. I have been staying in municipal albergues where I can, and walk further past and end of a ‘stage’ if need be. I don’t eat out at all, I spend as little as I can on groceries. Basically, I am doing my best to make my money last until Santiago. In some stops the only option for accommodation is a donativo. This is my problem - I give as much as I can. In some places the donation box is away from the registration place, and there is privacy to not compare donations. I have been so grateful for the hospitality I have received - I understand that what I can give mays doesn’t cover costs, I take super short showers, offer help cleaning/cooking etc,do my best to show my gratitude in what ways I can. In some stops, however, they take your name and ID and then say ok now give me the donativo please. It makes me feel so awkward. Once, there was no problem. But other times, they will ask something along the lines of ‘is that it?’ or I can tell that they are frustrated with me, and it’s a little silly maybe but almost ignoring me in comparison to other pilgrims. Sometimes I feel pressured and give more than I can afford. I feel guilty in these situations and I wonder if I am in the wrong. I am considering buying a cheap mat in the next bigger city and sleeping out, because I have around 2 more weeks till Santiago but not very much money left. Wondering what other people’s opinions are. Thanks!
At a donativo explanations should not be necessary.In those instances where they ask for the donation just explain that you have very little to give. Just explain that you are running low on funds and really want to make it to Santiago.
If you not familiar, dont comment..I’m not familiar with the business operations of donativos. If it’s not associated with a church or some sort of organization (ie it’s private), who pays their bills if the donations don’t cover all their costs?
how does that make any sense on a web forum? I appreciate you may not know the answer to my question, but other members will. Follow this thread and we will both learn something.If you not familiar, dont comment..
The donativo covers the bills and other costs, not the church or other organization.I’m not familiar with the business operations of donativos. If it’s not associated with a church or some sort of organization (ie it’s private), who pays their bills if the donations don’t cover all their costs?
Thanks for commenting. Perhaps where I (and possibly some others) get a bit confused is trying to understand if donativos are charities, or something different.The donativo covers the bills and other costs, not the church or other organization.
I wonder where you read this. The theory is really a stretch, and the sentence doesn't make sense. Are the local Spaniards in gratitude for their own work of hosting foreigners?I've also read that these places exist to allow local Spaniards without the means to walk caminos in their own country, perhaps in gratitude for hosting millions of foreigners for centuries.
From what I recall, the explanation was that donativos exist to ensure that people aren't prevented from participating in a pilgrimage due to the costs. And it was further explained that by the simple fact that most foreigners spend considerable funds to get to Spain, they aren't the "target audience" of poor people that need assistance. Non-Spanish people that come and enjoy the hospitality of Spain contribute to allow local Spaniards that cannot afford it to walk a pilgrimage. Essentially people from outside a country partially subsidizing locals, which regularly happens in the travel/tourism industry around the globe. Pilgrimage is absolutely a form of tourism.I wonder where you read this. The theory is really a stretch, and the sentence doesn't make sense. Are the local Spaniards in gratitude for their own work of hosting foreigners?
Following this logic means that donativos should stop to exist. Because they *do* offer a free bed for people that cannot afford to pay for one. That’s the whole point of them and arguable one of the *most important* things about the Camino.I hold the opinion that one should not embark on a trip to another country without the necessary funds to do so, and expecting a free bed along the way simply isn't sustainable. My opinion, which people are free to disagree with.
Some believe that if you can afford to get to Spain you can afford a bed to sleep on while you're there. If you truly can't afford a bed then you obviously can't afford the plane/train fare.Following this logic means that donativos should stop to exist. Because they *do* offer a free bed for people that cannot afford to pay for one. That’s the whole point of them and arguable one of the *most important* things about the Camino.
Some believe that if you can afford to get to Spain you can afford a bed to sleep on while you're there. If you truly can't afford a bed then you obviously can't afford the plane/train fare.
I'm not sure we all share the same opinion regarding what it means to not be able to afford a bed.
Might be so for you seeing you need to take a expensive flight. Lots of us Europeans take a bus ( Alsa or Flixbus ) , a train or a ferry. Some might even hitchhike to get to their destination.
Or are able to book a lower priced flight with Ryanair/Easyjet or the likes.
Or walk...
A person cannot afford a bed if it would mean not walking the Camino at all if they had to pay the going rate. Hence the donativos that say very clearly „give what you can“ and - once you are in a different position - pay it forward.I'm not sure we all share the same opinion regarding what it means to not be able to afford a bed.
Oh dear. I would really like a citation on that, otherwise it might look to me like ignorant prejudice. I've stayed in a lot of donation funded places, and often they are run by local pilgrim associations, sometimes by local government, not so often by a church or maybe just one priest as part of a service to humanity. Quite a few kind people (mostly on the less frequented routes) open their homes to pilgrims and treat them as part of the family. The way it's supposed to work is that people pay what they can. If they can't pay then with any luck someone else paid enough to cover them, and it all evens out over the course of time. It's not supposed to be a sporting event or a bargain holiday, and yes, there are people who you might think abuse the system. But the thing is, you, me, and the hospi (who is usually an unpaid volunteer) aren't qualified to judge the person putting whatever they put into the box. It's none of our business how much they give or how much they have.Thanks for commenting. Perhaps where I (and possibly some others) get a bit confused is trying to understand if donativos are charities, or something different.
Some seem to be run as businesses, with the owners choosing to let people pay what they want versus a fixed rate. Not dissimilar to many others I met in Spain, selling jewellery or other items to passing pilgrims, with no set rates. These people of course aren't operating charities, they are simply choosing a different pricing system.
However, obviously bills need to be paid no matter what, and if a donativo doesn't have a church or charity backing it, then not donating enough to cover the costs (at a minimum), hurts the donativo immensely. That alone seems to necessitate that pilgrims pay enough to cover the costs. Walking a camino is a privilege.
I've also read that these places exist to allow local Spaniards without the means to walk caminos in their own country, perhaps in gratitude for hosting millions of foreigners for centuries. The excess amounts donated by foreign pilgrims would offset those costs. Perhaps that's not accurate though.
I always thought "donativo" did not mean "free" and that people who act as if an albergue is free abuse the systemFollowing this logic means that donativos should stop to exist. Because they *do* offer a free bed for people that cannot afford to pay for one. That’s the whole point of them and arguable one of the *most important* things
A different point of view. I'm not sure a recent university grad should be headed off to Spain for a period of time that they don't have the money to support. If, after spending as minimal amount as possible, one is worried they don't have enough money to last until SdC, then they clearly didn't have enough money to begin with. And as this is not their first camino the costs wouldn't have been a surprise.
Fortunately it's possible to support yourself along the caminos in Spain for for far less money than it takes virtually anywhere else in the world (accommodation in Europe for as little as $10! It's incredible). It's not free however, and pilgrims need to budget accordingly. The cheapest options (ie free) should be reserved for the truly poor who would like to experience pilgrimage. A recent university grad from an English-speaking country likely doesn't fit that criteria.
Just one opionion. Don't hate on me. And no disrepect to the poster - I obviously know nothing of your specific circumstances. My comments are general.
You are aware of course that " developed countries " is a broad concept. Poverty too. Not wanting to go into politics ( sorry mods, do intervene here when I am crossing the line ) but the specific social security system also plays a role.Again, I think much of the disagreement or confusion comes from differing opinions on what "can't afford" means. Perhaps a lot of time spent in developing countries has influenced my thoughts on poverty and I'm applying those standards, which may not be relevant here.
Good discussion all around, and I would encourage everyone to continue to be open to hearing differing opinions on matters that are not black and white. A couple of the responses above demonstrate a decided lack of that openness.
Again, I think much of the disagreement or confusion comes from differing opinions on what "can't afford" means.
Some believe that if you can afford to get to Spain you can afford a bed to sleep on while you're there. If you truly can't afford a bed then you obviously can't afford the plane/train fare.
In my opinion, anyone setting out on a voluntary journey should have sufficient funds to support that journey. Fortunately Spain makes it incredibly cheap, which means you don’t have to be rich. I’d love to walk a Camino in France and England, but I can’t really afford to. Maybe one day.Probably. You seem to assume that everyone who can afford to travel to the Camino can afford a bed each night, for example.
Now, there are some of us from Europe who can take a long distance bus for 50€ or so to get to the spanish border, or a cheap flight for about the same. To give you a number. Cheapest ticket I could have had was even less.
So do you think having 50€ in your pocket for a bus ticket equals "can afford to pay a commercial accommodation each day for a Camino"?
Most pilgrims posting in this forum spend more money than that in a single day, some probably spend more than that for their bed only, for one night.
Anyway, this thread was about someone asking whether they should feel guilty that they can't donate as much as some albergues expect, and whether it is normal that a donativo asks for a fixed minimum fee. That question has been answered, even by some who served as hospitaleros in donativo albergues, and the answer to that was a very clear one.
Maybe a more general discussion should be continued in a different thread.
Of course. But "sufficient" is in the eyes of the beholder, as informed by whatever information they can gather in preparation. That is why the OP was trying to clarify the typical expectations for costs in donativo albergues. If she needs to leave early before reaching Santiago, then that is what she'll do. It doesn't mean that she should never have attempted. Walking in stages is common, when people need to stop early for whatever reason - injury, lack of finances or time.In my opinion, anyone setting out on a voluntary journey should have sufficient funds to support that journey.
Agreed. The journey may need to be shortened if it’s not financially viable to go as far as originally planned.If she needs to leave early before reaching Santiago, then that is what she'll do. It doesn't mean that she should never have attempted. Walking in stages is common, when people need to stop early for whatever reason - injury, lack of finances or time.
I’d love to walk a Camino in France, but I can’t really afford to. Maybe one day.
That is true. But some people don't want the cost of accommodations to necessarily prevent people from undertaking this particular voluntary journey. That is why they establish and operate donativo albergues. To say that people should not undertake a Camino if they cannot afford to pay the equivalent of full-price accommodations at donativo albergues is to deny the very purpose of those donativo albergues.In my opinion, anyone setting out on a voluntary journey should have sufficient funds to support that journey. Fortunately Spain makes it incredibly cheap, which means you don’t have to be rich. I’d love to walk a Camino in France and England, but I can’t really afford to. Maybe one day.
Thanks for that link, an interesting ( and very relevant!) ArticleThis is an interesting discussion. I've been in similar situations as OP, when I was younger. Not a lot of funds, but a strong urge to travel. So I travelled, not so much with the expectation of a free bed and/or meal, but a willingness to work for both. Didn't always work out as I hoped but I never quite starved. On top of that, the experience to sometimes have to rely on the kindness of strangers without the means to pay them back is a very powerful lesson.
OP's willingness to work, by offering to help cleaning or cooking, is in itself a form of currency. That doesn't always work out, which she accepts, up to a point. Guilt and shame have no place in a donativo. @SYates formulates it well in this article on Donativo albergues. "Try to separate the pilgrims from the money they leave in the box. This money doesn’t represent your worth as a hospitalera nor the worthiness of the pilgrim as a pilgrim."
Indeed. I know what she has said reflects my own experience as a hospitalero at a donativo. Far less experience than that of others on this forum, but @SYates' comments should be on the reading list for anyone walking the camino as well as those planning to give something back to the pilgrim community by serving as a voluntary hospitalero/a.Thanks for that link, an interesting ( and very relevant!) Article
That's not a real donativo then.I have also stayed at donatives with a fixed charge.
In my opinion, anyone setting out on a voluntary journey should have sufficient funds to support that journey.
But your opinion is very black and white, basically if you don't have x amount of dollars (totally subjective by the way) then one can't walk... which the OP does have sufficient funds.Good discussion all around, and I would encourage everyone to continue to be open to hearing differing opinions on matters that are not black and white.
I hold the opinion that one should not embark on a trip to another country without the necessary funds to do so, and expecting a free bed along the way simply isn't sustainable.
but don't have enough left to spend on a nightly minimum donation for a bed and a shower,
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