(snip) I inserted responses to parts in the middle of the quote below.
"If you prefer walking shorter distances, the
camino Frances might suit you best. There are a lot of albergues and a lot of other nice pilgrims. You might consider starting in Roncesvalles (or perhaps Pamplona). Most pilgrims start in St. Jean-pied-de-Port. Although there are 2 possible ways from St. Jean to Roncesvalles, in both cases it would mean 12+ miles up a mountain."
(snip)
If you walk the Valcarlos way, you effectively divide that first 1 day of the Napoleon way into 2 if you want to. There is a place to stay around half way to Roncesvalles. I am hoping that, whenever I am able to walk the Frances again, I can walk the Valcarlos path.
"Don't identify yourself with other pilgrims doing longer distances. It's not a race or a competition. " (snip)
What he said, in spades. If you're focused on out-doing the other guy, or being "more authentic" than the next gal, you're blocking off your participation in the pilgrimage. For me, one of the biggest lessons of the Camino, which I'm still learning, is to let go of the control. Yes, it feels ever so much more comforting to look up lots of information and read the guide books--yes, plural--and type up a plan. But in the event it is crucial to let all that be an enriching background, not a straitjacket.
I do build in some rest days in the plan, and a couple of days at the end for flexibility. The last time we walked, we used one of those end days to visit the royal monastery at El Escorial. The only thing I really keep track of, sort of, is when I need to be in the city where we fly out of to home to be there the night before the flight. And if I feel the need to ride a bus, I don't do it in the last 100 km, but early on so I will able to continue walking in that last part. But if you don't intend on qualifying for the Compostela certificate, that consideration is irrelevant.
"And you can take it easy every day, walking a bit, taking long breaks (try the local cafe-con-leche) and walk a bit more. It's all you have to do all day long (and what a joy that is).
If you want to get an idea of how far it is between possible places to stay, take a look at Gronze.com. Although it's in Spanish, it's easy enough to understand for non-Spanish speaking people:
El Camino Francés es el
Camino de Santiago en el que confluyen la mayoría de las vías medievales de peregrinación europeas, siendo por tanto el camino de mayor relevancia histórica y el más seguido por los peregrinos. Su punto de inicio, hoy en día, tanto puede considerarse Roncesvalles como...
www.gronze.com
Enjoy your Camino."