It doesn't help the peevishness to exaggerate with suggestions that people must pay for access to toilets, or that carriers are denying seats to people who pay a fare.
I prefer the current situation: never liked airline food, rarely check a bag, sleep too hot for a blanket, and don’t care where I sit! If I don’t have to pay hundreds extra for items you need that I don’t, it’s fine by me.
I generally feel this way also, and when I feel otherwise, I spring for the upgraded seat etc.
As to the rest, I didn't say that we have to pay to access the toilet. I said that if we don't pay the "premium" for advance selection then we can easily end up by the toilet. I know that, so I pay in advance, but there are other ways to offer fares that would feel less like aeronautic Hunger Games for people.
I said that I can understand why some people feel nickel and dime (which was not my phrasing, I was quoting
@Camino Chrissy -- who may well have been indicating an empathy for others, as, like me, she seems not overly bothered by the itemized fare.
Even though I don't personally feel exasperated, I expressed empathy for people's exasperations.
Travelling is stressful for many people; look how many come to the board because they are terrified of not knowing 35 days in advance for every booking. Many are reluctant fliers anyway. COV isn't helped... and airlines could do better at minimizing flier stress. I've been flying for all of my 53 of my 54 years and I still love it. But I understand why plenty pf people find the pecuniary attitude of the industry to be another knock.
We have 2 discount airlines locally that won't allow people who have waited for the last crappy seat on the plane to have that seat without paying a "selection fee" *at the gate.
And, it's actually just a very common practice, because of "overbooking", for airlines to deny boarding to passengers access to flights for which they have paid all the fees. Happened all the time pre-COV. And it's happening now with people being offered vouchers they can't use...
How many times have we heard the TAP or RyanAir have been impossible to deal with, that fares have been entirely lost etc. It's a different but not unrelated issue that makes me grateful I'm not in transportation logistics. But if I were in customer care, I'd be trying to find ways to create "softer landings" if you will, so that people would not feel "nickel and dimed."