- Time of past OR future Camino
- Various 2014-19
Via Monastica 2022
Primitivo 2024
No...I know you're not. Not like that, anyway.
But I gave this thread a provocative title on purpose - not to be a troll, but because I'm hoping the shock effect will open some eyes the same way as it opened mine.
In another thread, @Kanga said this:
That really 'went in' for me, in a new and very good way.
Because I'd never thought of things that way, instead have only focused on what I get or don't.
Realizing that I've been unaware of an assumption that the 5 Euros that municipals charge is the standard baseline for what albergues 'need.' And so if I'm staying at a private albergue and paying (maybe) 10, 12, or even 15 Euros, then I feel entitled to extras accordingly. Lots of hot water, unlimited power, WiFi...and so on.
But of course in all cases...their expenses may be way more than that.
And even in municipals and donativos...of course I am generous. But I also know that sometimes I take what is not freely offered. Even leaning against the shower faucet so it stays on for more than a minute is a kind of theft. That annoying faucet is there for a reason - to save water and electricity, so the costs stay down and others will have some hot water too.
When we walk the Camino we all live into new and special places of personal kindness and interconnectedness.
This post of yours, @Kanga, opened a door for me to see that the care can (and I think should) be extended to not only other pilgrims but also to those businesses who offer us service, hospitality, and support along the way. Thank you. It bears reflecting about.
Not everyone is out there to rip us off or make a buck.
So especially about those places that offer some services for a modest sum, in the spirit of the way, well...it's worth asking:
We don't steal...right? Well maybe not. But maybe. Payment does not entitle us to take as much as we can without thought of consequences.
I will be noticing, in a whole new way. This is so great...love it!
But I gave this thread a provocative title on purpose - not to be a troll, but because I'm hoping the shock effect will open some eyes the same way as it opened mine.
In another thread, @Kanga said this:
Wow. So true.I love coming across a hair dryer when I stay in hotels, but would not take one to use in albergues because of the cost of electricity. Their margins are very tight. I would feel I was stealing, unless I paid extra or made some other recompense.
That really 'went in' for me, in a new and very good way.
Because I'd never thought of things that way, instead have only focused on what I get or don't.
Realizing that I've been unaware of an assumption that the 5 Euros that municipals charge is the standard baseline for what albergues 'need.' And so if I'm staying at a private albergue and paying (maybe) 10, 12, or even 15 Euros, then I feel entitled to extras accordingly. Lots of hot water, unlimited power, WiFi...and so on.
But of course in all cases...their expenses may be way more than that.
And even in municipals and donativos...of course I am generous. But I also know that sometimes I take what is not freely offered. Even leaning against the shower faucet so it stays on for more than a minute is a kind of theft. That annoying faucet is there for a reason - to save water and electricity, so the costs stay down and others will have some hot water too.
When we walk the Camino we all live into new and special places of personal kindness and interconnectedness.
This post of yours, @Kanga, opened a door for me to see that the care can (and I think should) be extended to not only other pilgrims but also to those businesses who offer us service, hospitality, and support along the way. Thank you. It bears reflecting about.
Not everyone is out there to rip us off or make a buck.
So especially about those places that offer some services for a modest sum, in the spirit of the way, well...it's worth asking:
We don't steal...right? Well maybe not. But maybe. Payment does not entitle us to take as much as we can without thought of consequences.
I will be noticing, in a whole new way. This is so great...love it!
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