..... I count my lucky stars every night. I always
Knew what John and I had was special...this past two years has just made us stronger.
More then that really...in June 2015 I was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis. One week later skin cancer next to my nose. 4 removals..followed by topical Cemo.
Then my insistence on walking the 800 km Camino on my own in May 2016. He totally supported and encouraged me. One week after arriving home the dislocation of both hips . 4. Months later two extensive surgeries for my Lipedema. Then a diagnosis of Lyme and Co Lyme Babasia. Then months later they found my skin cancer returned. MOH surgery where a large tumour was removed from my face....incision from tear duct to nostril. Amazing can’t even tell....and best news ...cancer free !
Then two knee and two hip replacements in 13 months.
We’ve both become greyer....perhaps a little older looking ...with all the stresses....yet our Love which has always been STRONG only became Stronger.
Yes we have had horrible stresses but also successes
....and laughter.....lots of laughter.
He’s an Amazing Man and I’m a Very Blessed Women ❤
( the MOH surgery occurred before the Lipedema surgeries....impact the same )
Whoa, what an amazing, inspiring story!!! Am wondering - given your lower body replacements - are you a bicyclist, too? Ages ago, my last downhill run ended with my skis flying our from under me and a severely twisted knee. Being a runner, I assumed it was just banged up a bit - no sports physician for me - and kept running for years, with the knee occasionally "going out." It took Desiree - we met at a bereavement support meeting, having lost our spouses within a month of each other - to MAKE me have it checked out. Verdict: grossly bunged up cartilage from miles & miles of running. Specialist sloughed out gobs of cartilage, I asked him if I could run again, and he said I might try but there was a distinct possibility the stress would generate arthritis.
Bottom line: I hike & bike with no problems. I convinced Desiree to try the C.F. 3 years ago and she
loved it. Then (248 days ago at this writing) I lost the love of my life. So I repeated our walk last spring, sprinkling Desiree's ashes from St. Jean to Muxia, where - after agreeing to meet again somewhere on the 7 seas - the rest of Desiree (she was a great swimmer) entered the Atlantic. (I'll come back in April to visit her ashes.) Now, assuming you'll be comfortable using a bicycle, may I make a suggestion? Consider going to Burning Man on the last week in August. Yeah I know it's hot, hot, hot, but the Playa is absolute Biker Heaven, and biking in the evening, when the temperature drops, is magical. Google it if you're unfamiliar.
Now I need to offer just one last suggestion: Cherish that guy you found, because he sounds wonderful...